Maybe you need to pull a little hoodoo voodoo Ross Jeffries sh!t and create an "anchor" that you can use on yourself. Anchor a sexual state by rubbing your chin or something, then all you have to do is remember it when you need it.
Hmmm....maybe that won't work cause my whole problem is either "being there" all the time or remembering to "go there" when needed.
Hmmm....maybe that won't work cause my whole problem is either "being there" all the time or remembering to "go there" when needed.