"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I just noticed, I'm horrible when I'm alone with a woman...

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So recently I've been improving a lot with chicks, but theres one thing I just noticed....I am absolutley horrible at making any moves when Im alone with a chick. The other day for instance, a chick and I were alone (We both like each other), and I had no clue what to do. Cant make a move at all. Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Don't overthink the situation. If you're two alone, don't hestiate, just do. The more you think about it, the more you screw yourself over. I'm not saying, go in for a kiss ASAP, but I'm just saying relax and make a move!
 
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I'll say it then.
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Hahaha yeah I'll second that.

Being alone is all about breaking thresholds. First break the touch barrier (do this as soon as you see her). Keep touching her until you get a chance to kiss her. Keep touching (and kissing) until you get her shirt or pants off. Get your own clothes off. Keep touching. Enjoy.
 
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Thanks. Actually helps a lot. I just suck at transitioning from touching to kissing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Kinda seems to be the opposite for me... If I'm in a big crowd, i've gotta deal with people who try to dominate me... But when I'm alone, I feel great 'cause I've got the chick all to myself.
 
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306 said:
Kinda seems to be the opposite for me... If I'm in a big crowd, i've gotta deal with people who try to dominate me... But when I'm alone, I feel great 'cause I've got the chick all to myself.
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A big crowd saves me the awkwardness of silence. Also, if I don't make a move that day, there's less of a chance of friend zone because its a big crowd
 
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If your struggling with making convo, I strongly suggest you get better at talking to everyone. I've been doing it lately, and it works great if you make convo that goes into deeper detail than "how are you today?" "Had a nice sleep?" etc. Try to use what they give you, and turn that into value you can return. If she tells me "I did some snowboarding" I'll tell her what I think about the topic(positive replies guys) and tell a story or joke or whatever, and delve into the topic. When did she start? Was she happy doing it? Talk about experiences and make it fun. (Talk using emotions. "I LOVED doing that" or "I got the biggest smile ever that day" etc. Women are emotional creatures. If you understand women and emotions and convey it to her, You're golden)

I hope your catching the point?

Have fun with interactions, do what YOU want. she's a human like you. Have fun and connect with her/him.

Everyone will love you for it. That's the dude everyone likes.

Class dismissed. Go and take ACTION.

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apocolipto said:
If your struggling with making convo, I strongly suggest you get better at talking to everyone. I've been doing it lately, and it works great if you make convo that goes into deeper detail than "how are you today?" "Had a nice sleep?" etc. Try to use what they give you, and turn that into value you can return. If she tells me "I did some snowboarding" I'll tell her what I think about the topic(positive replies guys) and tell a story or joke or whatever, and delve into the topic. When did she start? Was she happy doing it? Talk about experiences and make it fun. (Talk using emotions. "I LOVED doing that" or "I got the biggest smile ever that day" etc. Women are emotional creatures. If you understand women and emotions and convey it to her, You're golden)

I hope your catching the point?

Have fun with interactions, do what YOU want. she's a human like you. Have fun and connect with her/him.

Everyone will love you for it. That's the dude everyone likes.

Class dismissed. Go and take ACTION.

Apoco
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Helped a lot. Thanks man!
 
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No prob. :)

Why not try and give us a field report soon about you taking action? Even if you escalated to kissing, that's a success.

I'll be waiting for that field report! :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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