"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just had a really sick twisted idea...

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While you're having sex with a girl and she's enjoying it, pull the Anti-slut defense...
I donno if we should be doing this. Then proceed to watch TV.

Just wondering what would happen. No guy in his right mind would even consider doing
it b/c he wants pvssy. Right?

I'm gonna try it next time just to see the reaction. These games are awesome. :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LOL!

I have actually WANTED to do that.

But male pride won't allow it.

JJ
 

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Well either i'll be a genius... or a complete idiot. Live and Learn right?
 

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Im leaning towards complete idiot, yet I have a softspot for the exploration of undiscovered behavior...
 

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Hmm, I've thought about doing this before too. Before I was gonna have sex with a girl I told her all I felt like was a piece of meat, and then she told me, "you are a hot piece of meat." It kinda made me feel bad..lol...but I went ahead with the sex though and did get psvvsy. It wasn't TOO bad.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Play the Game said:
While you're having sex with a girl and she's enjoying it, pull the Anti-slut defense...
I donno if we should be doing this. Then proceed to watch TV.

Just wondering what would happen. No guy in his right mind would even consider doing
it b/c he wants pvssy. Right?

I'm gonna try it next time just to see the reaction. These games are awesome. :)
Dude, I do this most of the time. It just drives them crazy and makes them want you more.

Say things like "I don't think we should have sex tonight" while you're making out...an hour later she will be begging you to fvck her, I promise.

Edit: She'll be begging for it as long as you're good at foreplay.
 

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I've done this plenty of times. Also, if a girl is sleeping over, I've even given her, her own blanket.

The only part is, you have to follow through. Make out, touch those hot spots, get her completely naked and vunerable, then pull back completely. she'll be pissed the hell off, but stand your ground and let her know that this is just way too soon for you.

be careful though. it could backfire and she'll see you as a pu$$y. make sure there is definately a good attraction there. if it's just a one night stand situation, don't even think about pulling this one. you'll never hear from her again.
 

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i would say you need to have sex with her at least 5 times before you pull these games to not look like a *****. BUt man, I do love to mess with girls heads, especially the ones who like to play games themselves. Is that weird or twisted of me?
 

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Do it with a girl who's done it to you before. Then when she protests, be like, "See how stupid it is?" If she gets offended, be like, "Get the f.uck outta my house!" LOL!
 

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Mjazz said:
i would say you need to have sex with her at least 5 times before you pull these games to not look like a *****. BUt man, I do love to mess with girls heads, especially the ones who like to play games themselves. Is that weird or twisted of me?
Nahh we're just returning the favor. What goes around, comes around.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've done this before with past gf's.

My last gf, it was really hard to watch movies with her.

We'd always end up fooling around/having sex by the end of it.[at her place]

Every once in a while I'd start touching her and teasing her and when she started getting all wet and trying to touch me back I'd go, "no! I actually want to watch this movie for once..." Then I'd make her turn around and continue watching the movie. We'd always lay down on the couch so after like 5 minutes I'd start brushing her boob/kissing her neck/other stuff to start again...and then I'd repeat. Then I'd make her feel my boner on her ass and other things...yeah...by the end of the movie she'd be jumping on top of me trying to take my clothes off.

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