"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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While you're having sex with a girl and she's enjoying it, pull the Anti-slut defense...
I donno if we should be doing this. Then proceed to watch TV.

Just wondering what would happen. No guy in his right mind would even consider doing
it b/c he wants pvssy. Right?

I'm gonna try it next time just to see the reaction. These games are awesome. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LOL!

I have actually WANTED to do that.

But male pride won't allow it.

JJ
 

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Well either i'll be a genius... or a complete idiot. Live and Learn right?
 

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Im leaning towards complete idiot, yet I have a softspot for the exploration of undiscovered behavior...
 

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Hmm, I've thought about doing this before too. Before I was gonna have sex with a girl I told her all I felt like was a piece of meat, and then she told me, "you are a hot piece of meat." It kinda made me feel bad..lol...but I went ahead with the sex though and did get psvvsy. It wasn't TOO bad.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Play the Game said:
While you're having sex with a girl and she's enjoying it, pull the Anti-slut defense...
I donno if we should be doing this. Then proceed to watch TV.

Just wondering what would happen. No guy in his right mind would even consider doing
it b/c he wants pvssy. Right?

I'm gonna try it next time just to see the reaction. These games are awesome. :)
Dude, I do this most of the time. It just drives them crazy and makes them want you more.

Say things like "I don't think we should have sex tonight" while you're making out...an hour later she will be begging you to fvck her, I promise.

Edit: She'll be begging for it as long as you're good at foreplay.
 

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I've done this plenty of times. Also, if a girl is sleeping over, I've even given her, her own blanket.

The only part is, you have to follow through. Make out, touch those hot spots, get her completely naked and vunerable, then pull back completely. she'll be pissed the hell off, but stand your ground and let her know that this is just way too soon for you.

be careful though. it could backfire and she'll see you as a pu$$y. make sure there is definately a good attraction there. if it's just a one night stand situation, don't even think about pulling this one. you'll never hear from her again.
 

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i would say you need to have sex with her at least 5 times before you pull these games to not look like a *****. BUt man, I do love to mess with girls heads, especially the ones who like to play games themselves. Is that weird or twisted of me?
 

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Do it with a girl who's done it to you before. Then when she protests, be like, "See how stupid it is?" If she gets offended, be like, "Get the f.uck outta my house!" LOL!
 

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Mjazz said:
i would say you need to have sex with her at least 5 times before you pull these games to not look like a *****. BUt man, I do love to mess with girls heads, especially the ones who like to play games themselves. Is that weird or twisted of me?
Nahh we're just returning the favor. What goes around, comes around.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've done this before with past gf's.

My last gf, it was really hard to watch movies with her.

We'd always end up fooling around/having sex by the end of it.[at her place]

Every once in a while I'd start touching her and teasing her and when she started getting all wet and trying to touch me back I'd go, "no! I actually want to watch this movie for once..." Then I'd make her turn around and continue watching the movie. We'd always lay down on the couch so after like 5 minutes I'd start brushing her boob/kissing her neck/other stuff to start again...and then I'd repeat. Then I'd make her feel my boner on her ass and other things...yeah...by the end of the movie she'd be jumping on top of me trying to take my clothes off.

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