"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I just got ****ing LJBF'd.

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Vice said:
Reply to her:

I think thats a great idea, we should just be friends!

besides, i don't think I'd be able to maintain your constant cravings for attention, at least until summer starts :)

I'm still taking you to prom. I bought the tickets last week, and I'm really looking forward to that dance floor because i learned a few new moves i want to try out :D

as for me separating myself from my phone on sunday, you did the EXACT same thing last week on tuesday or wednesday night when you were having that bad day. so enough of that pretentious girl stuff, brat!! :)

anyway, me, my friend ashley, alex, and possibly katt are going to starbucks around 8:30 tomorrow night. you should tag along, it'll be fun :)
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damn dawg, when I did it all I said was the "great idea let's be friends" line and that was it. Full stop, no fluff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shes prolly trying to bail from prom,, prolly shy that she wont know anyone there except you.
 
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My Name is Nobody said:
damn dawg, when I did it all I said was the "great idea let's be friends" line and that was it. Full stop, no fluff.
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Come-on man, you know a 17 year old knows so much more than a 28 year old! Surely you left some s*** out! ha-ha

Sorry for all the age discrimination in so little time by me Vice and whomever other teenagers might be offended by it, but lets get real here. Dude!
 
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Its a total loss.

me and her are finished.
 
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Vice said:
Its a total loss.

me and her are finished.
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I don't know if more exchanges occurred, but yes, I could have told you that with your initial post. The only thing you ever had a choice on was how graceful and cool you were going to be able to walk away from it.

Dude, it happens to everybody! Learn to be ready to respond DJ-like when it happens again, not if. The very best win and lose with women all the time. Do both gracefully and with a genuine smile on the inside and out ;-)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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azanon said:
I don't know if more exchanges occurred, but yes, I could have told you that with your initial post. The only thing you ever had a choice on was how graceful and cool you were going to be able to walk away from it.

Dude, it happens to everybody! Learn to be ready to respond DJ-like when it happens again, not if. The very best win and lose with women all the time. Do both gracefully and with a genuine smile on the inside and out ;-)
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i'm going to sleep on that post. thank you man
 
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azanon said:
Dude, it happens to everybody! Learn to be ready to respond DJ-like when it happens again, not if. The very best win and lose with women all the time. Do both gracefully and with a genuine smile on the inside and out ;-)
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I can imagine myself laughing out loud at a girl's face when she gives me a LJBF (hasn't happened yet).
 
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My Name is Nobody said:
tell her "I think thats a great idea, we should just be friends"
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yeah.. you do need friends.. so go to the prom with her, but because you are now friends, you can go hunting for other girls there.. and have a blast let her know you dont need her there to make you happy.. you are very happy on your own.. if she flakes out of the prom... forget the friendship stuff.. drop her ass like a hot potato.. find another friend.

Vice said:
Its a total loss.

me and her are finished.
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Make it her loss no yours
 
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