You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
my life."Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Go see other girls (aka spinning plates) and let this chick have fun with her self-inflicted drama.stoner1129 said:"Lisssssp anyone? wow what a cry baby lol ur crzy if u think i ever felt anything for you, why do u think i did what i did! SUCKA! yup real immature like a freshmen is supposed to be lol gah! i
Wow now the emo put that up lol.
What would you guys do?
she's calling you out over myspace in what seems to be an anonymous attack toward someone. Wow, and she called you immature? Please tell me you arent responding in the same sense.stoner1129 said:"Lisssssp anyone? wow what a cry baby lol ur crzy if u think i ever felt anything for you, why do u think i did what i did! SUCKA! yup real immature like a freshmen is supposed to be lol gah! i
Wow now the emo put that up lol.
What would you guys do?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.