Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
my life."I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Go see other girls (aka spinning plates) and let this chick have fun with her self-inflicted drama.stoner1129 said:"Lisssssp anyone? wow what a cry baby lol ur crzy if u think i ever felt anything for you, why do u think i did what i did! SUCKA! yup real immature like a freshmen is supposed to be lol gah! i
Wow now the emo put that up lol.
What would you guys do?
she's calling you out over myspace in what seems to be an anonymous attack toward someone. Wow, and she called you immature? Please tell me you arent responding in the same sense.stoner1129 said:"Lisssssp anyone? wow what a cry baby lol ur crzy if u think i ever felt anything for you, why do u think i did what i did! SUCKA! yup real immature like a freshmen is supposed to be lol gah! i
Wow now the emo put that up lol.
What would you guys do?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.