"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I just got flaked on, was I right to get kind of mad?

stoner1129

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"Lisssssp anyone? wow what a cry baby lol ur crzy if u think i ever felt anything for you, why do u think i did what i did! SUCKA! yup real immature like a freshmen is supposed to be lol gah! i ♥ my life."

Wow now the emo put that up lol.
What would you guys do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SilverSonnet

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
jesus, stop monitering the *****, she's just tesing you. whose hte great catch her chum? you or her? That's what I thought
Now go find some other hot woman who respects you high quality DJ ass and fvck that *****, let her rot somewhere.

peace

ben ;)
 

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stoner1129 said:
"Lisssssp anyone? wow what a cry baby lol ur crzy if u think i ever felt anything for you, why do u think i did what i did! SUCKA! yup real immature like a freshmen is supposed to be lol gah! i ♥ my life."

Wow now the emo put that up lol.
What would you guys do?
Go see other girls (aka spinning plates) and let this chick have fun with her self-inflicted drama.
 

nando

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Jitterbug said:
Go see other girls (aka spinning plates) and let this chick have fun with her self-inflicted drama.
x1 , never go back to her now, or you will look like a clown who is desperate for her, she disrespected you WAY TOO much, have some pride, ignore her, find new chicks.
 

Rebound Material

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stoner1129 said:
"Lisssssp anyone? wow what a cry baby lol ur crzy if u think i ever felt anything for you, why do u think i did what i did! SUCKA! yup real immature like a freshmen is supposed to be lol gah! i ♥ my life."

Wow now the emo put that up lol.
What would you guys do?
she's calling you out over myspace in what seems to be an anonymous attack toward someone. Wow, and she called you immature? Please tell me you arent responding in the same sense.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lol nope, idk what's up with her, if you guys read any of my other threads this is the same chick that out of no where was saying something of how she loves me so much, and some other b.s.
 
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