I just cry together with my gf

[Candyman]

So many ppl here are saying that crying is for *****es w/e that they would never cry you think that makes you a real man..... Let me tell you something if you think that u been hurting your girl feelings for a long time and you know she doesn’t' deserve that because all the things she does for you with out you even ask for it and you love that girl but you barely show it, in moments like that that you see her suffering of course you will get sentimental with her that’s what makes the relationship stronger moments like that.
And if at the end we don’t finish together I wont be wondering what if I would have been a lil nicer...Im only 22 she is the type of girl I would marry but im not ready for that **** I wanna have fun so that’s why I been an *******, but it gets to a point that if you love the girl and she is good you need to change a lil or you will loose a great girl.

 

[Dannyrt34]

So many ppl here are saying that crying is for *****es w/e that they would never cry you think that makes you a real man..... Let me tell you something if you think that u been hurting your girl feelings for a long time and you know she doesn’t' deserve that because all the things she does for you with out you even ask for it and you love that girl but you barely show it, in moments like that that you see her suffering of course you will get sentimental with her that’s what makes the relationship stronger moments like that.
And if at the end we don’t finish together I wont be wondering what if I would have been a lil nicer...Im only 22 she is the type of girl I would marry but im not ready for that **** I wanna have fun so that’s why I been an *******, but it gets to a point that if you love the girl and she is good you need to change a lil or you will loose a great girl.

So why did you ask us if you think you have it all figured out?

I think our advice is just NOT what you wanted to hear. You need to answer my question of why you continue to hurt her feelings if you think she's a good girl.

 

[Candyman]

I dont really know I tend to say stuff that I dont mean and i know its hurting her at the moment but I dont care. Its like at that moment thats what i really feel like saying but then I know its not.

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Some bullsh!t.

You done venting now?

This is my take on it. If you didn't want to see the opinion of other people, then why post?

And what you are doing sounds very pvssy to me. There's a diffrenece between crying alone, and in front of other people. Congratulations, now you're Mr. Sensitive to everyone. :kick:


BTW:
Good luck with your marriage. I hope you know that 50% of Marriages end in divorce. Better save up for lawyer fees.

 

[Candyman]

who said I was goin to get married

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

she told me she wants to marry me w/e and we want to have a kid

Im only 22 she is the type of girl I would marry but im not ready for that... but it gets to a point that if you love the girl and she is good you need to change a lil or you will loose a great girl.

who said I was goin to get married

I don't know where I saw it in your post. My mistake.
I read what Candyman was posting instead. I must have confused you two.

 

[Candyman]

She wants to get marry I dont I do want a kid with her after that who knows...

 

[Fenderules]

just do what you want.............

but make sure your on the same page. if she claims to be as great as you say, dont treat her like ****, just be honest and tell her your not intersted in that right now

 

[mrRuckus]

So what you guys think about crying in front of your gf is that real love????? the way she sees me will change what you guys think

I think you should talk to your girl friends about this. This is a male message board.

 

[TheNewGuy]

Could someone pass the tampons.

 

[Candyman]

lol this is funny

 

[danielzxc]

Well, it's probably a sign that you care for her more than you think.

STILL, crying in each others shoulders. Sheeeet man... I couldn't even imagine doing that. But who knows... maybe it could happen to any us of us. But the idea of crying in front of a chick to me is just soooooo disgusting, believe me, even if I felt the urge (like in your example) I would be fighting it with every ounce of power I have.

Anyway, it happened. Don't make a habit of it!

 

[Dannyrt34]

I dont really know I tend to say stuff that I dont mean and i know its hurting her at the moment but I dont care. Its like at that moment thats what i really feel like saying but then I know its not.

My only advice I can give is this.

If you really care about her, then you need to change this.

I don't know how because I don't have that problem. I think before I speak. You should too.

 

[MacDiddy]

Candyman - you have issues. You must be taking it out on her.

 

[Candyman]

Yeah I Know I haven’t been the best anyway ....her parents are getting divorce she is an only child so she is suffering a lot from that too, even thought every time we are together she is having fun and kind of forget about that but yeah maybe I got some issues.

A lil update after the emotional stupid cry that I had next to her... so far she stills the same everyday she comes to my room starts cleaning up before I ask brings me my food she likes to take care of me a lot last 2 days she was feeding me, we still have sex like twice a day she always comes at least 2 or 3 times and then I come. She keeps calling me all the time and texting I haven’t see any big or any changes at all she is just a lil sad because her dad is about to move from her house.

 

[persiangino]

Is this for real?

 

[Candyman]

what????

 

[\O/]

Women cry. Men kill things.

Listen to this man. Now, why would you want to cry infront of your girl? After me and my ex broke up after several years together, I cried in front of her and with her. When I think back now it makes me cringe. It's painful to think about..

I'm actually a sensitive guy from natures side, but never again will I cry infront of a girl. Crying can be great under certain circumstances, but a break up does not fall under that list...

If you have to cry, do it alone. Or just suck it up and be a man about it.

 

[MacDiddy]

Candyman - you need to cut her some slack and be positive.. If her experience with you is positive then she'll want it to continue. if not, then even tho she is with you now, she'll cut you and run to the next guy that gives her that positive experience... and $ex doesn't count.