"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just can't win with women

Bingo-Player

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PlayHer Man said:
You need to spin more plates man.

I'm telling you.. the man should always care LESS than the woman! This is possibly the most important DJ rule. If you care more than her, you have lost the game.

As a man you should not be hunting for a soul mate. Especially at age 20. You should be looking strictly for FUN and SEX. Just sport f*ck women who you find attractive. Don't over-think it, don't try to bond with them, don't do sh!t besides flirting and f*cking. Trust me. Some of these women will want a relationship with you because you don't give a sh!t. A man who doesn't care has options and a man with options has value. That's female math for you. :yes:

So stop caring and start f*cking. Women your age don't give a sh!t anyway. These are the c0ck carousel years. They all want to get drunk and pounded into a mattress by a different guy every week. Why are you crying over these skanks? :crackup:

posts like this ^^ are why i friggin love this site
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would have just responded, "Its cool, I'm not the jealous type... ;-)" and saw what she said before I dropped her...
 
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