I just cannot seem to do it....

[ItsOnNow]

I can' push myself to go out there and get it done for whatever reason. If i keep doing this to myself,I'm gonna go nuts. I have already gone nuts. Reading about all this stuff probably doesn't help much either. I dont know if its low self esteem,lack of self confidence,self sabotage,or whatever. The stuff on this site,and the seduction base site,its opened my eyes for both good and bad,yet I dont know why,I cannot seem to find it in myself. How can I stop it? How can be the person I want to be and do the the things I want to do?

 

[Jack McCrack]

Maybe you're putting too much pressure on yourself?

 

[Evolution]

I can' push myself to go out there and get it done for whatever reason. If i keep doing this to myself,I'm gonna go nuts. I have already gone nuts. Reading about all this stuff probably doesn't help much either. I dont know if its low self esteem,lack of self confidence,self sabotage,or whatever. The stuff on this site,and the seduction base site,its opened my eyes for both good and bad,yet I dont know why,I cannot seem to find it in myself. How can I stop it? How can be the person I want to be and do the the things I want to do?

Its all of the above. You need to stop ranting about how crappy your life is, because chances are your better off than a lot of people right now.

The reason why your life isn't where you want it to be, is that you do not have a strong idea of what you want in life, or a number of silly things. You have to actually make the effort to go towards what you want.

The more you stall and waste time, the more "depressed" you will become. I suggest you read the DJ bible, or better yet some of "David DeAngelo's" material. I suggest "How to be a Man" and "DYD:Mastery". This should blow out many of your bad beliefs, and get you back on your feet.

 

[DonJuan11]

I can' push myself to go out there and get it done for whatever reason. If i keep doing this to myself,I'm gonna go nuts. I have already gone nuts. Reading about all this stuff probably doesn't help much either. I dont know if its low self esteem,lack of self confidence,self sabotage,or whatever. The stuff on this site,and the seduction base site,its opened my eyes for both good and bad,yet I dont know why,I cannot seem to find it in myself. How can I stop it? How can be the person I want to be and do the the things I want to do?

Put the ego aside and grow some conjones. It's a good thing they didn't send you off to Iraq to fight.

 

[Interceptor]

It's because there are a couple of factors hiolding you back, and you lack the tools and perspective to deal with them right now.