Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Jokerlsk

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So finally I get a date guys. It's on halloween too! Yeah, I know, you probably are thinking I'm happy right? Well..... no. I figured something out about myself, and I think i'm sadistic. I have this gift guys. Now, i'm not the most attractive kid, but i'm not ugly, and I do have some things going for me that girls are actually interested in. The thing is, is that once i get a girl to like me, I just completely lose interest. What the F*** is wrong w/ me? I can get HB 6-8 to fall for me, but I just lose interest the next day. Why do I do this? Seriously, I'm only 16, and I can get girls, but I just stop liking them. I'm such a perfectionist, and I guess I'm only seeing the faults in others....
help me please.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jokerlsk

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Ummmmm no........ I'm 16, and am all for abstinence...... I have a 3 year old brother, and am certain I don't want a son anytime soon.
 

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Well try kissing and making out or else you'll just be waiting for the perfect girl and she will never come.

Maybe after you kiss them and hang out with them the interest will grow back.
 

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Bang em'

Seriously.

The main point in picking up girls, as cruel as it sounds, is to bang them.
I'm not the one to be holding hands and making kissy faces, only for a big fat helping of no-sex. It's just silly.

It's been that way for thousands of years. It won't change today, and it won't change tommorow.

If your worried about having a child. You can:

- See if she is on birth control

- Get her to be on birth control

- Wear a condom

- Have her take a "morning after" pill.

In light of all of this, get your sixteen year old ass out there, and bang some women!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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magickarl said:
Bang em'

Seriously.

The main point in picking up girls, as cruel as it sounds, is to bang them.
I'm not the one to be holding hands and making kissy faces, only for a big fat helping of no-sex. It's just silly.

It's been that way for thousands of years. It won't change today, and it won't change tommorow.

If your worried about having a child. You can:

- See if she is on birth control

- Get her to be on birth control

- Wear a condom

- Have her take a "morning after" pill.

In light of all of this, get your sixteen year old ass out there, and bang some women!
LOL! Gee, what great advice man. Minus the fact that you have since started a thread about two girls you have had recent scares with.

16 year olds don't need to be banging anyone. Stick with the abstinence Joker.
 

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I used to be the same way, and I was banging them so that's not the solution. I don't know I think with me it might have just been a phase or the media, as in seeing rock stars with so many different women all the time made me want that so I tried moving from girl to girl.
 

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Actually, I think its because these girls don't have enough in common with you that makes you lose interest.
 

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Maybe you need a ***** who keeps testing you and feeding you the anger that will eventually give you MPB genes and a heart attack.

Good luck with that.

Or you can just start acting the same way you do before you lose your mojo. Pretend she's someone else.

If you don't wanna shlep them anyway whats the point of causing attraction?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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