"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just came to a conclusion

Jokerlsk

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So finally I get a date guys. It's on halloween too! Yeah, I know, you probably are thinking I'm happy right? Well..... no. I figured something out about myself, and I think i'm sadistic. I have this gift guys. Now, i'm not the most attractive kid, but i'm not ugly, and I do have some things going for me that girls are actually interested in. The thing is, is that once i get a girl to like me, I just completely lose interest. What the F*** is wrong w/ me? I can get HB 6-8 to fall for me, but I just lose interest the next day. Why do I do this? Seriously, I'm only 16, and I can get girls, but I just stop liking them. I'm such a perfectionist, and I guess I'm only seeing the faults in others....
help me please.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jokerlsk

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Ummmmm no........ I'm 16, and am all for abstinence...... I have a 3 year old brother, and am certain I don't want a son anytime soon.
 

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Well try kissing and making out or else you'll just be waiting for the perfect girl and she will never come.

Maybe after you kiss them and hang out with them the interest will grow back.
 

magickarl

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Bang em'

Seriously.

The main point in picking up girls, as cruel as it sounds, is to bang them.
I'm not the one to be holding hands and making kissy faces, only for a big fat helping of no-sex. It's just silly.

It's been that way for thousands of years. It won't change today, and it won't change tommorow.

If your worried about having a child. You can:

- See if she is on birth control

- Get her to be on birth control

- Wear a condom

- Have her take a "morning after" pill.

In light of all of this, get your sixteen year old ass out there, and bang some women!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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magickarl said:
Bang em'

Seriously.

The main point in picking up girls, as cruel as it sounds, is to bang them.
I'm not the one to be holding hands and making kissy faces, only for a big fat helping of no-sex. It's just silly.

It's been that way for thousands of years. It won't change today, and it won't change tommorow.

If your worried about having a child. You can:

- See if she is on birth control

- Get her to be on birth control

- Wear a condom

- Have her take a "morning after" pill.

In light of all of this, get your sixteen year old ass out there, and bang some women!
LOL! Gee, what great advice man. Minus the fact that you have since started a thread about two girls you have had recent scares with.

16 year olds don't need to be banging anyone. Stick with the abstinence Joker.
 

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I used to be the same way, and I was banging them so that's not the solution. I don't know I think with me it might have just been a phase or the media, as in seeing rock stars with so many different women all the time made me want that so I tried moving from girl to girl.
 

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Actually, I think its because these girls don't have enough in common with you that makes you lose interest.
 

loving

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Maybe you need a ***** who keeps testing you and feeding you the anger that will eventually give you MPB genes and a heart attack.

Good luck with that.

Or you can just start acting the same way you do before you lose your mojo. Pretend she's someone else.

If you don't wanna shlep them anyway whats the point of causing attraction?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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