Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Jokerlsk

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So finally I get a date guys. It's on halloween too! Yeah, I know, you probably are thinking I'm happy right? Well..... no. I figured something out about myself, and I think i'm sadistic. I have this gift guys. Now, i'm not the most attractive kid, but i'm not ugly, and I do have some things going for me that girls are actually interested in. The thing is, is that once i get a girl to like me, I just completely lose interest. What the F*** is wrong w/ me? I can get HB 6-8 to fall for me, but I just lose interest the next day. Why do I do this? Seriously, I'm only 16, and I can get girls, but I just stop liking them. I'm such a perfectionist, and I guess I'm only seeing the faults in others....
help me please.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jokerlsk

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Ummmmm no........ I'm 16, and am all for abstinence...... I have a 3 year old brother, and am certain I don't want a son anytime soon.
 

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Well try kissing and making out or else you'll just be waiting for the perfect girl and she will never come.

Maybe after you kiss them and hang out with them the interest will grow back.
 

magickarl

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Bang em'

Seriously.

The main point in picking up girls, as cruel as it sounds, is to bang them.
I'm not the one to be holding hands and making kissy faces, only for a big fat helping of no-sex. It's just silly.

It's been that way for thousands of years. It won't change today, and it won't change tommorow.

If your worried about having a child. You can:

- See if she is on birth control

- Get her to be on birth control

- Wear a condom

- Have her take a "morning after" pill.

In light of all of this, get your sixteen year old ass out there, and bang some women!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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magickarl said:
Bang em'

Seriously.

The main point in picking up girls, as cruel as it sounds, is to bang them.
I'm not the one to be holding hands and making kissy faces, only for a big fat helping of no-sex. It's just silly.

It's been that way for thousands of years. It won't change today, and it won't change tommorow.

If your worried about having a child. You can:

- See if she is on birth control

- Get her to be on birth control

- Wear a condom

- Have her take a "morning after" pill.

In light of all of this, get your sixteen year old ass out there, and bang some women!
LOL! Gee, what great advice man. Minus the fact that you have since started a thread about two girls you have had recent scares with.

16 year olds don't need to be banging anyone. Stick with the abstinence Joker.
 

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I used to be the same way, and I was banging them so that's not the solution. I don't know I think with me it might have just been a phase or the media, as in seeing rock stars with so many different women all the time made me want that so I tried moving from girl to girl.
 

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Actually, I think its because these girls don't have enough in common with you that makes you lose interest.
 

loving

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Follow your bliss
Maybe you need a ***** who keeps testing you and feeding you the anger that will eventually give you MPB genes and a heart attack.

Good luck with that.

Or you can just start acting the same way you do before you lose your mojo. Pretend she's someone else.

If you don't wanna shlep them anyway whats the point of causing attraction?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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