"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just asked my "Friend" out

Baruch

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Originally posted by CaptainObvious#1
That's all good. Proud of ya.
But why do you even bother posting here for advice if all you're going to do is ignore it all and do your own thing anyways. If you are so sure of yourself don't post here wasting peoples time. They actually put thought into their posts and all you do is agree then go and do something totally different.

At least Desdinova has a good view of it all, even though you don't need to make any mistakes in the first place seeing as people were giving you good adivce in the first place :rolleyes:


Good luck with this new girl by the way.
I didnt ignore anyones advice. I did email her telling her I made plans with someone else.

I will also not care whats going on through her mind. I am just going to do my thing and try to work my game with other girls.

If you may point me out to what advice I ignored, I would appreciate it.

I do admit I shouldve not brought the issue back up to her and try to prove myself, that was a mistake on my behalf. I admit, it was AFCish.

the two females apperantly have discussed me. i didnt ask what was discussed, i thought it would be insecure to ask even though i was curious. the girl seemed eager to meet me, although ive been discussed between em, i dont care what was discussed or what she thinks of me. she has to worry about what i think of her than vice versa.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Desdinova

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Interesting development. I'm guessing that you didn't ask for her number. Make sure you get it when you see her on Saturday. Apply some kino when you meet up with her in person. She sounds like she *may* be interested, but there's no real way to find out until you make the move. Good luck!
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Interesting development. I'm guessing that you didn't ask for her number. Make sure you get it when you see her on Saturday. Apply some kino when you meet up with her in person. She sounds like she *may* be interested, but there's no real way to find out until you make the move. Good luck!
yes, it is a very interesting development.

I did get her number, i wouldve gotten her number last night, but my internet connection died and i went to sleep. today i got her number. I got it today, because i dont think ill be seeing her saturday since she is going to a diffrent party. but she did want to meet up after the parties.

I dont know if ill be that availible for her.
 

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I dont know if ill be that availible for her.
As long as you don't call her nonstop, nor talk on the phone for hours, you should be fine. Call her up and set up a date for sometime in the middle of the week. Strike while the iron's hot.
 
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