"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I just asked my "Friend" out

Baruch

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Originally posted by CaptainObvious#1
That's all good. Proud of ya.
But why do you even bother posting here for advice if all you're going to do is ignore it all and do your own thing anyways. If you are so sure of yourself don't post here wasting peoples time. They actually put thought into their posts and all you do is agree then go and do something totally different.

At least Desdinova has a good view of it all, even though you don't need to make any mistakes in the first place seeing as people were giving you good adivce in the first place :rolleyes:


Good luck with this new girl by the way.
I didnt ignore anyones advice. I did email her telling her I made plans with someone else.

I will also not care whats going on through her mind. I am just going to do my thing and try to work my game with other girls.

If you may point me out to what advice I ignored, I would appreciate it.

I do admit I shouldve not brought the issue back up to her and try to prove myself, that was a mistake on my behalf. I admit, it was AFCish.

the two females apperantly have discussed me. i didnt ask what was discussed, i thought it would be insecure to ask even though i was curious. the girl seemed eager to meet me, although ive been discussed between em, i dont care what was discussed or what she thinks of me. she has to worry about what i think of her than vice versa.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Desdinova

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Interesting development. I'm guessing that you didn't ask for her number. Make sure you get it when you see her on Saturday. Apply some kino when you meet up with her in person. She sounds like she *may* be interested, but there's no real way to find out until you make the move. Good luck!
 

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Originally posted by Desdinova
Interesting development. I'm guessing that you didn't ask for her number. Make sure you get it when you see her on Saturday. Apply some kino when you meet up with her in person. She sounds like she *may* be interested, but there's no real way to find out until you make the move. Good luck!
yes, it is a very interesting development.

I did get her number, i wouldve gotten her number last night, but my internet connection died and i went to sleep. today i got her number. I got it today, because i dont think ill be seeing her saturday since she is going to a diffrent party. but she did want to meet up after the parties.

I dont know if ill be that availible for her.
 

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I dont know if ill be that availible for her.
As long as you don't call her nonstop, nor talk on the phone for hours, you should be fine. Call her up and set up a date for sometime in the middle of the week. Strike while the iron's hot.
 
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