"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I haven't masturbated in 5 days...

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and I want to bang every woman I see. I feel more motivated to approach a girl because I just want to get in her. Well, I do want to know her and hang out, but it's like my **** is saying "stop worrying and just go talk to her so I can get wet".

Plus I'm tired of being alone...so with this extra horniness and the suckiness of my love life it's like the perfect storm. I'm sure any female I date has been intimate 100 times more than me. I need to find me a girl and get to ****ing. I never had sex with a girl multiple times per day, every day. I'm 25 years old and feel like it's now or ever to get my love life in order.

So basically... no masturbation does help with lowering a man's resistance to approaching. I think a couple more days and I'm gonna be spittin' game to every girl I see.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lol. Good luck. I get really horny just before I am due on, and I flirt with anyone, this one time I was so horny, I bumped my bum against a cute guys crotch on a busy train in the underground and turned my head back with a naughty smile and apologized, and then he bumped me ;)

Girls generally can get away with a lot more than guys.
 

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Hey man you've just gota be careful with that. I tried to just quit entirely too but what I realized is once you're at about day 4 you start coming off as needy because you need a lay so bad.

It's almost a paradox. If you do it too much then you can end up being somewhat uninterested in a hotty, but because you're uninterested she gets attracted to you, even though you've got no motivation. And if you do it too little you need it so bad you'll start to act AFC cause you just want a lay.

I'm at a point where I just do it about twice a week. Any more or less ruins my motivation or game.
 
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