"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I haven't masturbated in 5 days...

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and I want to bang every woman I see. I feel more motivated to approach a girl because I just want to get in her. Well, I do want to know her and hang out, but it's like my **** is saying "stop worrying and just go talk to her so I can get wet".

Plus I'm tired of being alone...so with this extra horniness and the suckiness of my love life it's like the perfect storm. I'm sure any female I date has been intimate 100 times more than me. I need to find me a girl and get to ****ing. I never had sex with a girl multiple times per day, every day. I'm 25 years old and feel like it's now or ever to get my love life in order.

So basically... no masturbation does help with lowering a man's resistance to approaching. I think a couple more days and I'm gonna be spittin' game to every girl I see.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cinamon

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lol. Good luck. I get really horny just before I am due on, and I flirt with anyone, this one time I was so horny, I bumped my bum against a cute guys crotch on a busy train in the underground and turned my head back with a naughty smile and apologized, and then he bumped me ;)

Girls generally can get away with a lot more than guys.
 

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Hey man you've just gota be careful with that. I tried to just quit entirely too but what I realized is once you're at about day 4 you start coming off as needy because you need a lay so bad.

It's almost a paradox. If you do it too much then you can end up being somewhat uninterested in a hotty, but because you're uninterested she gets attracted to you, even though you've got no motivation. And if you do it too little you need it so bad you'll start to act AFC cause you just want a lay.

I'm at a point where I just do it about twice a week. Any more or less ruins my motivation or game.
 
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