I haven't gotten laid in about a year and a half - starting to really crave it

[bigdave17]

This is absolutely true, that's why he constantly c0ck blocks himself.

Someone in touch with themselves with at least be honest to admit that it was their own personal high standards that was really getting in their way - not the "never ending sea of bottom of the barrel low quality women in looks or status". They would be able to say to themselves "I do have high standards, and, therefore, I AM getting in my own way, but I'm okay with that, I'll own it"

Not this never ending whiny crying baby $hit that he constantly posts about how the world is unfair and he is a complete victim

So I did go out last night of course. I sorta talked to 2 or 3 girls and all of them were very receptive to me. Another was staring me down. They were decent looking but not close enough to dating quality (1 was very short, 1 was very tall, not really in shape, too pale, etc...). There was this gorgeous Italian or Greek brunette but I didn't have the courage to start anything. Good ****ing lord was she amazing


I'm realizing that I very very rarely have women who are negative or non receptive to me when I initiate a conversation. I don't understand why I have such an intense fear of talking to women I don't know. I feel like they're going to laugh at me and reject me in the most awful way imaginable, but that basically never happens.

I just gotta convince myself that women are not so difficult

 

[bigdave17]

This is absolutely true, that's why he constantly c0ck blocks himself.

Someone in touch with themselves with at least be honest to admit that it was their own personal high standards that was really getting in their way - not the "never ending sea of bottom of the barrel low quality women in looks or status". They would be able to say to themselves "I do have high standards, and, therefore, I AM getting in my own way, but I'm okay with that, I'll own it"

Not this never ending whiny crying baby $hit that he constantly posts about how the world is unfair and he is a complete victim

I always admit I have very specific standards

I'm basically interested in someone around 5'2 to 5'9, Italian/Greek/Spanish/Mexican/Light Skinned Black/Middle Eastern, cute face, nice body with a fat ass, good personality (somebody as affectionate, loyal, nice as I am), decent job/decent with finances, no kids. I always admit I'm very selective

 

[bigdave17]

Your problem is your selectivity. Why keep complaining? Go away.

but those girls exist though. There was this beautiful Italian girl last night who probably fit everything

I didn't have the courage to initiate anything

I have this intense anxiety of initiating conversation with women even though I can't remember any point in my life ever getting a negative or nasty response. They're almost always very receptive/positive/friendly when I start talking to them

 

[Mike32ct]

but those girls exist though. There was this beautiful Italian girl last night who probably fit everything

I didn't have the courage to initiate anything

I have this intense anxiety of initiating conversation with women even though I can't remember any point in my life ever getting a negative or nasty response. They're almost always very receptive/positive/friendly when I start talking to them

Why do you disregard smaller victories on your path to bigger ones? Those other chicks were responding positively to you. Great. Maybe not your exact type, but it's a start towards the ones you really want.

At work, weren't you happy and ENCOURAGED when you sold your first car? Or did you hate yourself until you sold say X cars a month (that you do now)?

 

[sazc]

I always admit I have very specific standards

I'm basically interested in someone around 5'2 to 5'9, Italian/Greek/Spanish/Mexican/Light Skinned Black/Middle Eastern, cute face, nice body with a fat ass, good personality (somebody as affectionate, loyal, nice as I am), decent job/decent with finances, no kids. I always admit I'm very selective

Blah blah blah. Yea, you admit you have specific standards and them get on here and whiiiiiiinnnnnneeeee about not being able to find a woman. YOU are the reason you can't find anyone. Stop blaming everything and everyone else.

 

[bigdave17]

Why do you disregard smaller victories on your path to bigger ones? Those other chicks were responding positively to you. Great. Maybe not your exact type, but it's a start towards the ones you really want.

I've had lots and lots of women who were not my type who liked me in my life. At this point, it doesn't do anything for me

 

[bigdave17]

Blah blah blah. Yea, you admit you have specific standards and them get on here and whiiiiiiinnnnnneeeee about not being able to find a woman. YOU are the reason you can't find anyone. Stop blaming everything and everyone else.

didn't you read this?

I'm realizing that I very very rarely have women who are negative or non receptive to me when I initiate a conversation. I don't understand why I have such an intense fear of talking to women I don't know. I feel like they're going to laugh at me and reject me in the most awful way imaginable, but that basically never happens.

my intense anxiety with women is the #1 problem. Anxiety in terms of approaching strangers. I'm very smooth around women once I get started/get comfortable

 

[Mike32ct]

I've had lots and lots of women who were not my type who liked me in my life. At this point, it doesn't do anything for me

Alright man. Fair enough.

 

[sazc]

didn't you read this?



my intense anxiety with women is the #1 problem. Anxiety in terms of approaching strangers. I'm very smooth around women once I get started/get comfortable

Then solve your sh1t instead of whining about it all the time

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is absolutely true, that's why he constantly c0ck blocks himself.

Someone in touch with themselves with at least be honest to admit that it was their own personal high standards that was really getting in their way - not the "never ending sea of bottom of to he barrel low quality womenin looks or status". They would be able to say to themselves "I do have high standards, and, therefore, I AM getting in my own way, but I'm okay with that, I'll own it"

Not this never ending whiny crying baby $hit that he constantly posts about how the world is unfair and he is a complete victim

He also has

Then solve your sh1t instead of whining about it all the time

Well we all told him the first thing he needs to do is get his dyck wet. Also calling women "trash" cant be a good attitude. Attitude adjustment and see thw good in people who are good.

 

[R.U.G.]

250K in New York is 60K where I live dude. I have a beautiful 2500 square foot house here that cost me under 300K. In NY, it would cost 1.5 million

190-200K is only impressive income in a cheap area. If you live in Manhattan, San Fran, etc... you need like 500K for an impressive income

Dave, you live on Cloud 9. When you get back to Earth, come back to SS to post. I mean, your numbers are laughable at best.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Step 1: Read the DJ Bible

 

[sosousage]

What a desperated grown man. Duh

 

[sosousage]

You must be ugly because women couldnt say no if u had all these qualities

 

[spinich]

I've had lots and lots of women who were not my type who liked me in my life. At this point, it doesn't do anything for me

Because you are struggling with your gay side?

 

[sosousage]

Because you are struggling with your gay side?

his jokes (if he has any) are probably bad. its tough to even text through net with this guy. and he somehow thinks hes attractive, big LOL!