I haven't gotten laid in about a year and a half - starting to really crave it

[mrgoodstuff]

Lol she’s a naughty s!ut.

They all are right?

 

[Ranger]

They all are right?

Yep. And I like them that way. Don’t change a thing. If he does get one like that one...just think how much of a chump he will be and about the rounds she will be making. Lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yep. And I like them that way. Don’t change a thing. If he does get one like that one...just think how much of a chuck he will be and about the rounds she will be making. Lol

You mean "chump" not "Chuck" right? So you might as well tap it when you can and laugh about it when it's out of eyesight.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You mean "chump" not "Chuck" right? So you might as well tap it when you can and laugh about it when it's out of eyesight.

You might as well run trains on one like that and pass her around too.

 

[sazc]

@sazc

I've got 2 ask this, no disrespect here but r u a dude masquerading as a chick?

Because if u r not then it's really gonna look really bad for some of the guys that's on here.

Nope, chick. 2 boobs and the 'other'. I'm an engineer plus I've been reading this site for a while so I'm sure things have rubbed off on me

Sosuave has actually helped me realize that I needed to not worry so much about being rejected, that I would rather be with someone I am compatible with, than be with 'just anyone' in order to not be alone. SS has taught me to always be open to the date (it's difficult for guys to ask, if they do, try to make it happen) to always offer to split the check, to always make it easy (no games) for the people I am interested in dating and to always try my best to not hurt any feelings with the people I am not interested in dating.

Even chicks can learn.

I think the most important thing I've learned is 'do no harm'. Not that I was a B before, but I take greater care NOW than I did before because I have seen the other side. Women are important to men for many different reasons. Women validate men on a very fundamental and organic level. It's important to take care and do no harm when interacting with them.

 

[sazc]

You're not wrong in what you are saying

what kills me is I just don't get natural dating opportunities much anymore. A lot of this stuff would be fixed with some dating success with women in my league but I have to cold approach to do that, which is ridiculously hard and I can't do online dating because I look like a f**king ugly retard in pictures

i have to get way out of my comfort zone, which is massively daunting

Listen, I'm done trying to counsel you only because you don't listen to anyone so why bother.

What I will say, that I really hope you understand and take in is, every time you tell yourself something affirmative as to why it's just not happening for you, you need to challenge that thought and commit to changing that situation.

If you read above, you gave me a reason as to why it's not happening for you. Challenge your negative thought processes and dare to change it. That's really the only way things are going to change for you, and it's something only you can do.

 

[MatureDJ]

But you couldn't get pvzzy if your life depended upon it.

I was listening to a YouTube conversation between True Forced Loneliness legend "Roller" Steve Hoca and the up & coming "Hell By The Dashboard Light" discuss that if there were some hypothetical requirement for some man to find a woman to get laid with in the next 24 hours to save the world, the world wouldn't make it, LOL.

It's contained somewhere in these 2 videos:

 

[btownbuck2012]

For Christ sake just bang a hooker. You keep bragging about how much money you have spend it on some sure thing p*ssy

 

[MatureDJ]

And where does this perfect women exist?

I can guaranteed that she doesn't exist in the USA!

 

[zekko]

These are a dime a dozen. There's a bunch of $30-$40k females that look like this. Stop putting them on a pedestal.

Dime a dozen? I think she's pretty hot. I'm always amazed at how many attractive women there are walking around though.
It's telling that she couldn't even put her phone down long enough to be photographed, lol.

Women validate men on a very fundamental and organic level. It's important to take care and do no harm when interacting with them.

It's funny that you draw this conclusion when one of the basic fundamentals of PUA is "Don't be validated by women, be validated by yourself".
I agree with you though, men do receive a lot of validation from women - and vice versa, of course.

 

[HankHill]

For Christ sake just bang a hooker. You keep bragging about how much money you have spend it on some sure thing p*ssy

Umm if he does better check the local laws...I think most states, in fact, certain counties consider it a crime? Explain that to the potential employer or future partner/gf/etc lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Dime a dozen? I think she's pretty hot. I'm always amazed at how many attractive women there are walking around though.
It's telling that she couldn't even put her phone down long enough to be photographed, lol.


It's funny that you draw this conclusion when one of the basic fundamentals of PUA is "Don't be validated by women, be validated by yourself".
I agree with you though, men do receive a lot of validation from women - and vice versa, of course.

She's hot but dime a dozen. Visit a nightclub. Plenty of hot $30-$40k babes many dressed on someone else's dollar.

 

[zekko]

She's hot but dime a dozen. Visit a nightclub. Plenty of hot $30-$40k babes many dressed on someone else's dollar.

I'm an old man, almost everybody looks good to me

 

[sazc]

Is funny that you draw this conclusion when one of the basic fundamentals of PUA is "Don't be validated by women, be validated by yourself".
I agree with you though, men do receive a lot of validation from women - and vice versa, of course.

I say that coming from a place of love and compassion. I mean no harm.

I agree with the PUA teaching of value yourself first. That's more important than seeking validation. But we're still all humans looking for love, hence looking for validation.

 

[btownbuck2012]

Umm if he does better check the local laws...I think most states, in fact, certain counties consider it a crime? Explain that to the potential employer or future partner/gf/etc lol

A lot of stuff is “illegal” but doesn’t stop people from doing it.

 

[Spaz]

Nope, chick. 2 boobs and the 'other'. I'm an engineer plus I've been reading this site for a while so I'm sure things have rubbed off on me

Sosuave has actually helped me realize that I needed to not worry so much about being rejected, that I would rather be with someone I am compatible with, than be with 'just anyone' in order to not be alone. SS has taught me to always be open to the date (it's difficult for guys to ask, if they do, try to make it happen) to always offer to split the check, to always make it easy (no games) for the people I am interested in dating and to always try my best to not hurt any feelings with the people I am not interested in dating.

Even chicks can learn.

I think the most important thing I've learned is 'do no harm'. Not that I was a B before, but I take greater care NOW than I did before because I have seen the other side. Women are important to men for many different reasons. Women validate men on a very fundamental and organic level. It's important to take care and do no harm when interacting with them.

If that's how you think, then you've going to be attracting largely men that's "in touch" with their femininity.

 

[zekko]

If that's how you think, then you've going to be attracting largely men that's "in touch" with their femininity.

Disagree, I don't see anything wrong with what she said. Quite the opposite, in fact.

 

[sazc]

If that's how you think, then you've going to be attracting largely men that's "in touch" with their femininity.

Disagree, I don't see anything wrong with what she said. Quite the opposite, in fact.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion

 

[Spaz]

Disagree, I don't see anything wrong with what she said. Quite the opposite, in fact.

I agree. As the resident intellect you won't.

But I do.

 

[Fzatf]

@bigdave17 you need to date within your own league, not the league you think you should be. However, when you don't have the nerve to even cold approach, you're self sabotaging. Until you learn to get over your fear you should have fun with girls who show interest in you; the slightly older, white girls, and single moms are a good source of short term fun. (Though white girls shouldn't be excluded at all imo)