"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Have you ever seen some hot girls or girl on the street as you drive pass and would love the chance to talk to them? I don't know if that's all you get since your driving, is a look, but is there anyway of actually getting to talk to them. I mean driving back would seem desperate so is it just a lost cause or is there anyway of picking them up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think the "transportation barrier" pretty much kills any chance you have of picking them up. Just keep driving, I'd say.
 

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Who really gives a hell how it seems. If she is appealling to the eye then go and try to get it.

I don't think I would want what I can get through the "drive-thru" but, hey, do your thing thing. The thing about this is not worrying about how you appear but remaining fearless.
 

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scream "HEYY BABEE CAN I CALL YOU?"

This tactics seems to work for the latino guys around my school since they do it every few minutes.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
scream "HEYY BABEE CAN I CALL YOU?"

This tactics seems to work for the latino guys around my school since they do it every few minutes.
LMAO. I can definitely identfiy with this since nearly half of the population in my city is Hispanic. Sorry if it offends anyone, but I really think it's a cultural thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Bunk 040
I don't think I would want what I can get through the "drive-thru" but, hey, do your thing thing.
I see what your saying, I was just wondering because there have been times where I get eye contact with them.
 

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pull out your cell phone, point to it, and scream, whats your number?
 

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Originally posted by Porky
scream "HEYY BABEE CAN I CALL YOU?"

This tactics seems to work for the latino guys around my school since they do it every few minutes.
I am Hispanic, maybe it can work for me, I don't know though, maybe it only works on latin girls...
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
pull out your cell phone, point to it, and scream, whats your number?
That's so strange and spontaneous it just might work...but only on really outgoing girls. Most of the other ones would probably just look at you strangely or maybe even flip you off.
 

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What you should do next time is stick your head out of the window, pull over of course, and ask "I'm lost". ask for directions. Just don't seem obivious or desperate.

Remember, just because somone on this site tells you something will work, doesn't mean it is going to work.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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