"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I haven't been laid in 2 months

blueline

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I've gotten something like probably almost 10 numbers (in addition to a few numbers from girls I don't want to fuck) since then. Had 3 makeouts, 2 dates (4 dates with one of them), been rejected for like 4 dates with girls I actually want to fuck, and was ultimately implicitly rejected by the HB7 I took on 4 dates and madeout with several times.

This is what I get after fucking an HB8 almost every day for four months straight. Being single sure is a blast!! Not.

New idea: do not number close until she's made out with you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Never get to a point where you're dependant on p*ssy.. I have gone for over a year before, more than once. 2 months is not a big deal.
 

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number close means nothing. Droughts take days, weeks, or sometimes years. You're a man. It's not as easy for you (unless you pay for it). Don't feel bad about it.
 

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Yeah, I thought I understood how meaningless the number close was before this, but now I truly understand how meaningless it is. I also didn't understand how meaningless the makeout is before this, but now I do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A good thing to keep in mind is you don't have shivt with a woman for at least two months. Even if you fuvk them, they may disappear. It takes about 8 weeks for a woman's interest to develop. Unless of course, you meet her at a club and take her home. Getting number, making out, and sometimes even sex, means nothing early on. Just when you thought you want to fuvk her again, she will disappear. It all depends on her interest, if she's single, or if you have something she wants.
 
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