"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have trouble waking up

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Hi. Two months ago or so, I used to wake up at 5 every morning, go to bed at 10ish. I'd run that early.

Then I got a bike for the daily transportation. I usually go 5 miles minimum every day, sometimes 10, and other times 20. Not a big deal. This biking thing reasulted in me loosing exactly 0 lbs. I don't loose weight while biking.

But none the less, I love it. It's much more exciding that driving a car and I can get places faster. I don't have a license so gotta do biking for now.

My problem is that I like to sleep more than I used to once I start biking. Todate I am unable to wake up at 5 and run. I just can't. If I go to bed at 10 and wake up at 6, I'll go ahead and turn off the alarm clock and sleep till 7, and then do that again and sleep till 8.

But usually I go to bed at 12 and wake up at 9. It seems that I like to sleep 9 hours minimum since starting biking. I don't know what's going on.

I need help. I want to get back into early morning running. At other times it's too hot and not practical. What can I do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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1) Put the alarm far away from your nightstand so you can't turn it off.
2) Don't rationalize, get up.
3) Use principle of progression: wake up 7, week after 6, week after 5,...
4) Sleep in earlier

Doesn't matter if it's the biking or not. Just get up.
 

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Am gonna take that advice of putting the alarm clock far away from the bed too.
 

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Use several alarms, clock, cellphone, etc...
Let's say you want to wake up at 6:00am
So you program 3 alarms: 5:55am; 6:00am and 6:05 am
 

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If you want to get up earlier get to bed earlier. Getting adequate sleep is important.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have this problem worse than anyone I Know. I can put my alarm in a different ROOM, and I will cut it off, and go to sleep in the couch instead of the bed. i just can't help it.

a couple of thigns that work for me

1) It's not the amount of sleep it's the quality of sleep. I know myself. I can't, under any circumstances, fall asleep on my stomach. i'm a hopeless cause the next day if I do. when I go to sleep on my back I pop up the next morning

2) My dogs. If I'm not up by say... 9am.. the bigger one will hop on my bed and just sit on me until I get up.

3) as silly as it my sound.... my mom.. to this DAY will call me at 8:30ish every weekday to make sure I'm up... it's usually a 10 second call.. but she knows all too well. she gets up at 4am and she's good and woke by that time. and she lives half way across the country. when the phone rings that usually gets me up.

if my mom for some reason is busy and doesn't call me and my dogs are sleep.... it's very easy for me to sleep until 2pm.. if not longer. I'm that horrible.
 

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Right about the time I got my bike I stopped taking multi vitamins. Centrim Performance. Could this be the cause?


Now. Whether I wake up after over sleeping or wake up early, it doesn't matter. In fact I think I feel better throughout the day if I wake up early.


Quality of sleep? It's great. After biking if I stretch it feels really good, like my muscles having orgasms.


I gotta do this somehow. Previously I found out that tomorrow starts today with an early sleep. But, going to bed at 10, 10:30 ish seemed not have helped me at all. Today, I'll bike again, get ready for bed early, sleep early, and give another shot tomorrow morning.
 

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wow! You get up at 8?! You should be applauding yourself. Its a rare occasion that I'm up before noon.
 

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backbreaker said:
1) It's not the amount of sleep it's the quality of sleep. I know myself. I can't, under any circumstances, fall asleep on my stomach. i'm a hopeless cause the next day if I do. when I go to sleep on my back I pop up the next morning
On the rare occasion i fall asleep on my back, i will inevitably wake up in about 20 minutes gasping for air and roll over onto my stomach and go back to sleep.

Ever since i started taking melatonin and zma before bed i've felt a lot less tired and not even wanting to go back to sleep when i wake up.
 

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backbreaker said:
3) as silly as it my sound.... my mom.. to this DAY will call me at 8:30ish every weekday to make sure I'm up... it's usually a 10 second call.. but she knows all too well. she gets up at 4am and she's good and woke by that time. and she lives half way across the country. when the phone rings that usually gets me up.
This is very sweet. I love your mom.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i can go to sleep right now...5 oclock... and I kid you not.. if I don't have something wake me up.. I will be in bed until 2pm tomorrow. I'm that bad. I love to sleep
 

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Well, Good Fellows last night. Went to sleep 12 30. Put alarm to 6.

I think I either turn it off or didn't woke up for the alarm.

Here is a related problem. How to go to bed early?
 

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ViciousDADogg said:
Well, Good Fellows last night. Went to sleep 12 30. Put alarm to 6.

I think I either turn it off or didn't woke up for the alarm.

Here is a related problem. How to go to bed early?
By first waking up early. How can you turn the alarm off if it's not at your nightstand?
 

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I get up, walk to it, turn it off, then go to sleep. Today I don't remember doing that, so perhaps I slept right through it.


I think going to bed early is the culprit.
 

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Nighthawk said:
This is very sweet. I love your mom.
seconded. also, I have had this problem, and one thing that helped was using a pc connected to speakers with no external volume control, logged out and monitor off, so that I had to log in and sit down to turn the sound off, and half a red bull sitting next to the keyboard, a bathrobe on the chair, and my university email etc on the desktop. this is probably a bit 'different' but i've tried everything else and getting myself to 'think' is the only thing that works at 7am.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Buy 8 alarm clocks and plug them all in around your room. Consider a power bar to plug an extra three or four clocks in. Stagger the time that they go off( 1 minute apart). By the time you're done turning them all off, you'll be too angry to go back to sleep. Also, crank the volume.
 
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