"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have trouble waking up

ViciousDADogg

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Hi. Two months ago or so, I used to wake up at 5 every morning, go to bed at 10ish. I'd run that early.

Then I got a bike for the daily transportation. I usually go 5 miles minimum every day, sometimes 10, and other times 20. Not a big deal. This biking thing reasulted in me loosing exactly 0 lbs. I don't loose weight while biking.

But none the less, I love it. It's much more exciding that driving a car and I can get places faster. I don't have a license so gotta do biking for now.

My problem is that I like to sleep more than I used to once I start biking. Todate I am unable to wake up at 5 and run. I just can't. If I go to bed at 10 and wake up at 6, I'll go ahead and turn off the alarm clock and sleep till 7, and then do that again and sleep till 8.

But usually I go to bed at 12 and wake up at 9. It seems that I like to sleep 9 hours minimum since starting biking. I don't know what's going on.

I need help. I want to get back into early morning running. At other times it's too hot and not practical. What can I do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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stronglifts

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1) Put the alarm far away from your nightstand so you can't turn it off.
2) Don't rationalize, get up.
3) Use principle of progression: wake up 7, week after 6, week after 5,...
4) Sleep in earlier

Doesn't matter if it's the biking or not. Just get up.
 

Analytic

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Am gonna take that advice of putting the alarm clock far away from the bed too.
 

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Use several alarms, clock, cellphone, etc...
Let's say you want to wake up at 6:00am
So you program 3 alarms: 5:55am; 6:00am and 6:05 am
 

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If you want to get up earlier get to bed earlier. Getting adequate sleep is important.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have this problem worse than anyone I Know. I can put my alarm in a different ROOM, and I will cut it off, and go to sleep in the couch instead of the bed. i just can't help it.

a couple of thigns that work for me

1) It's not the amount of sleep it's the quality of sleep. I know myself. I can't, under any circumstances, fall asleep on my stomach. i'm a hopeless cause the next day if I do. when I go to sleep on my back I pop up the next morning

2) My dogs. If I'm not up by say... 9am.. the bigger one will hop on my bed and just sit on me until I get up.

3) as silly as it my sound.... my mom.. to this DAY will call me at 8:30ish every weekday to make sure I'm up... it's usually a 10 second call.. but she knows all too well. she gets up at 4am and she's good and woke by that time. and she lives half way across the country. when the phone rings that usually gets me up.

if my mom for some reason is busy and doesn't call me and my dogs are sleep.... it's very easy for me to sleep until 2pm.. if not longer. I'm that horrible.
 

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Right about the time I got my bike I stopped taking multi vitamins. Centrim Performance. Could this be the cause?


Now. Whether I wake up after over sleeping or wake up early, it doesn't matter. In fact I think I feel better throughout the day if I wake up early.


Quality of sleep? It's great. After biking if I stretch it feels really good, like my muscles having orgasms.


I gotta do this somehow. Previously I found out that tomorrow starts today with an early sleep. But, going to bed at 10, 10:30 ish seemed not have helped me at all. Today, I'll bike again, get ready for bed early, sleep early, and give another shot tomorrow morning.
 

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wow! You get up at 8?! You should be applauding yourself. Its a rare occasion that I'm up before noon.
 

mrRuckus

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backbreaker said:
1) It's not the amount of sleep it's the quality of sleep. I know myself. I can't, under any circumstances, fall asleep on my stomach. i'm a hopeless cause the next day if I do. when I go to sleep on my back I pop up the next morning
On the rare occasion i fall asleep on my back, i will inevitably wake up in about 20 minutes gasping for air and roll over onto my stomach and go back to sleep.

Ever since i started taking melatonin and zma before bed i've felt a lot less tired and not even wanting to go back to sleep when i wake up.
 

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backbreaker said:
3) as silly as it my sound.... my mom.. to this DAY will call me at 8:30ish every weekday to make sure I'm up... it's usually a 10 second call.. but she knows all too well. she gets up at 4am and she's good and woke by that time. and she lives half way across the country. when the phone rings that usually gets me up.
This is very sweet. I love your mom.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i can go to sleep right now...5 oclock... and I kid you not.. if I don't have something wake me up.. I will be in bed until 2pm tomorrow. I'm that bad. I love to sleep
 

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Well, Good Fellows last night. Went to sleep 12 30. Put alarm to 6.

I think I either turn it off or didn't woke up for the alarm.

Here is a related problem. How to go to bed early?
 

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ViciousDADogg said:
Well, Good Fellows last night. Went to sleep 12 30. Put alarm to 6.

I think I either turn it off or didn't woke up for the alarm.

Here is a related problem. How to go to bed early?
By first waking up early. How can you turn the alarm off if it's not at your nightstand?
 

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I get up, walk to it, turn it off, then go to sleep. Today I don't remember doing that, so perhaps I slept right through it.


I think going to bed early is the culprit.
 

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Nighthawk said:
This is very sweet. I love your mom.
seconded. also, I have had this problem, and one thing that helped was using a pc connected to speakers with no external volume control, logged out and monitor off, so that I had to log in and sit down to turn the sound off, and half a red bull sitting next to the keyboard, a bathrobe on the chair, and my university email etc on the desktop. this is probably a bit 'different' but i've tried everything else and getting myself to 'think' is the only thing that works at 7am.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Buy 8 alarm clocks and plug them all in around your room. Consider a power bar to plug an extra three or four clocks in. Stagger the time that they go off( 1 minute apart). By the time you're done turning them all off, you'll be too angry to go back to sleep. Also, crank the volume.
 
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