"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I feel like I have a emo personality I get really depressed and emotionally attached to my love interests and generally depressed about the world, I don't know how to express myself at time I have charm but most times I feel awkard in conversations and living a lonely life dreaming about unrelistic hope and love interests. You guys probable want be able to help me but I guess I need some encouragement right now I just feel low.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gammergq said:
I feel like I have a emo personality I get really depressed and emotionally attached to my love interests and generally depressed about the world, I don't know how to express myself at time I have charm but most times I feel awkard in conversations and living a lonely life dreaming about unrelistic hope and love interests. You guys probable want be able to help me but I guess I need some encouragement right now I just feel low.
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try prescription!!! jk your grow out of it.
 
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LAWYER said:
try prescription!!! jk your grow out of it.
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Wow, that's like the worst advice ever.

Write out a list of the things you think you need to improve on and then how you can improve them. Then try your best to take action. It may be difficult to judge yourself but it'll be worth it eventually.
 
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the best thing is to learn not to give a f*** i used to have the same problems during my early childhood and finally i just let go. now i can honestly say i live a dream. this is something YOU have to do but it's best to just let go... tell yourself before dating a girl that shes not the one for you and that she is practice i know it seems cruel but when the lust stage ends you wont be fooled by your feelings and you'll be more likely to know if you really love her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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