Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
As tempted as I am to make an exception for Friv and his girlfriend (he knows I am as conservative as he is liberal), this is crap. If a chick starts going on about feminism to me or pro-abortion or gay marriage or some other garbage, I'm going to disagree, and if she doesn't like it, she can buzz off.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I have never came across a chick who brings up feminism to me or anything like that. Maybe you should talk about more interesting things in your conversations so that topic doesn't come up. I can suggest some books for that, if you're interested.
I'm an anti-feminist, and I like to ask men what their view on feminism is just to see if they'll feed me a line of sh*t just to avoid offending me. You wouldn't believe how many men will hem and haw and tip toe around that question. After their blood pressure goes down a bit I like to ask if they're circumcised or not. I've found these are very good methods to find out just how honest a guy is along with how well he's able to handle himself outside of his comfort zone. If a guy can't pull those two questions off confidently there is no way he can provide his side of the level of conversation necessary to hold my interest.Originally posted by DrMetallica
I have never came across a chick who brings up feminism to me or anything like that. Maybe you should talk about more interesting things in your conversations so that topic doesn't come up. I can suggest some books for that, if you're interested.
Besides, what is pro-abortion? I don't think anyone is pro-abortion. Pro-choice, maybe, but you have to be pretty f*cked up to believe in pro-abortion
Interesting.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you appologise you hand over the power to her. Women aren't good with power that's why they don't run countries and they didn't build empires. So don't give her the power in the realationship it can only lead to disaster.Originally posted by frivolousz21
thanks, you seem like a normal person...
this entire thread was created because I made her cry because I said MEAN things on accident..I got carried away...and i wanted to know if a sorry or maybe a rose was in order.
then i get called a pyssy!
wow
Hey, I hate to tell you this:
The man is meant to dominate the relationship it is in our nature. Social conditioning teaches us things like co-dependency and social conditioning is dangerous. What do you think causes men to become AFC’s?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.