Well, let me try and clarify this...
I have this problem where if I start chatting to someone I genuinely like, then I'll focus all my energy on that one woman- usually this pays off (persistence is actually effective, within reason), but if not, no harm done, move on.
What I've noticed however, is that because I'm so focused on one woman, I'll become completely indifferent to every other woman. Sure, I'll still flirt and have fun, but my attention will return to the lady of my desires.
Turns out that this indifference is incredibly attractive to women. Just as I am relishing the challenge of trying to get one woman, all of a sudden several other women suddenly see me as a challenge, one in which they will try desperately to conquer, purely because I don't give them the attention they desire after the initial flirty exchange.
This has gone on for a while, but I've only recently started to take notice and, dare I say, take advantage. Is this wrong of me? Nope, I don't think so. What I'm saying is that indifference is powerful, really powerful. If you flirt with a woman to the point where she's really enjoying your company, then suddenly take the attention away for a stretch of time, it'll drive her mad, and don't be surprised if she starts getting in contact with you frequently. I was just too dense to realise for a while!
I have this problem where if I start chatting to someone I genuinely like, then I'll focus all my energy on that one woman- usually this pays off (persistence is actually effective, within reason), but if not, no harm done, move on.
What I've noticed however, is that because I'm so focused on one woman, I'll become completely indifferent to every other woman. Sure, I'll still flirt and have fun, but my attention will return to the lady of my desires.
Turns out that this indifference is incredibly attractive to women. Just as I am relishing the challenge of trying to get one woman, all of a sudden several other women suddenly see me as a challenge, one in which they will try desperately to conquer, purely because I don't give them the attention they desire after the initial flirty exchange.
This has gone on for a while, but I've only recently started to take notice and, dare I say, take advantage. Is this wrong of me? Nope, I don't think so. What I'm saying is that indifference is powerful, really powerful. If you flirt with a woman to the point where she's really enjoying your company, then suddenly take the attention away for a stretch of time, it'll drive her mad, and don't be surprised if she starts getting in contact with you frequently. I was just too dense to realise for a while!
