"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have the ability to be really attractive...but need help. (pic inside)

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Chris Tucker as Smoky: "Break yoself foo!" haha sorry just had to get the Friday reference in.

Man you sound just like me other than that im white. Im about 5'10 and 150 lbs, like asian and white females, wear similar clothes as of late and a nice watch. i still get pimples too which sucks. been using stridex pads daily to improve my skin. I also look young for my age.

Anyway, i saw a comment by one of the posters about getting an asian friend to sarge with. That would be a great idea to help pickup asian chicks, I myself am working on that angle at college where there are tons of sexy asian women(though its great to have more friends regardless). You probably have some white friends already so take them with you to social proof ya and build you up in front of the white girls they know. I know if i went for black chicks id definitely want a dude like you or 2 like you on my side to social proof me, lol. Hell id be glad to chill but i doubt you live anywhere near Seattle. anyways peace.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the only way an asian friend would help with sarging is either 1, he's attractive or 2, he actual is among the asian social network. If they don't know your asian friend and he's not attractive i doubt it would increase your chances at all.
 

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I'm gonna focus on making a lot of friends and just get girls that way. Last night is the last time I'm going out to a club or bar. It's a waste of time and money. It's a meat market like online dating. You have to stand out (tall or muscular) for any chicks to like you. Or just be really goofy looking and extremely funny.
 
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