"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have the ability to be really attractive...but need help. (pic inside)

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Chris Tucker as Smoky: "Break yoself foo!" haha sorry just had to get the Friday reference in.

Man you sound just like me other than that im white. Im about 5'10 and 150 lbs, like asian and white females, wear similar clothes as of late and a nice watch. i still get pimples too which sucks. been using stridex pads daily to improve my skin. I also look young for my age.

Anyway, i saw a comment by one of the posters about getting an asian friend to sarge with. That would be a great idea to help pickup asian chicks, I myself am working on that angle at college where there are tons of sexy asian women(though its great to have more friends regardless). You probably have some white friends already so take them with you to social proof ya and build you up in front of the white girls they know. I know if i went for black chicks id definitely want a dude like you or 2 like you on my side to social proof me, lol. Hell id be glad to chill but i doubt you live anywhere near Seattle. anyways peace.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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the only way an asian friend would help with sarging is either 1, he's attractive or 2, he actual is among the asian social network. If they don't know your asian friend and he's not attractive i doubt it would increase your chances at all.
 

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I'm gonna focus on making a lot of friends and just get girls that way. Last night is the last time I'm going out to a club or bar. It's a waste of time and money. It's a meat market like online dating. You have to stand out (tall or muscular) for any chicks to like you. Or just be really goofy looking and extremely funny.
 
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