"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have the ability to be really attractive...but need help. (pic inside)

Special T

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King Turi said:
I'd say it'd be more of a behaviour thing as has already been said, do you feel kinda awkward sometimes or something?
'Cuz people pick up on that.
Sometimes I do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just a Shot Away said:
I would just skip all of this looks/confidence crap and just tell chicks that I'm Chris Tucker's brother and that if they play their cards right I may be able to score them a role in Rush Hour 4.

But...that's just me.
Hell yeah, work the chris tucker angle
 

King Turi

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Special T said:
Sometimes I do.
Yeah, well these are the times when you won't pick up any chicks or anything.

Well, I for one am never at my best anywhere or at anything when I feel awkward.

I dunno, try finding some clothes you think suit you and feel comfortable, get all the **** you wanna pimp yourself out with and hit up the town and see what happens.

Just make sure you're havin' fun while you do it, and don't just kinda stand around or anything.

Gotta chat to people and ****.

It's so much harder to get chicks interested, and to talk to people and stuff when you're in your hometown, for me anyway, try hitting up some places out of town where nobody knows you, you kinda get to feel like you are being yourself.

Well I do anyway.
But I wanna move overseas. ._.
 

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You TOTALLY need an asian friend to go sarging with! That'll be hilarious, and girls like hilarious :D
 

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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King Turi said:
It's so much harder to get chicks interested, and to talk to people and stuff when you're in your hometown, for me anyway, try hitting up some places out of town where nobody knows you, you kinda get to feel like you are being yourself.
Couldn't agree more
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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just wear what Chris Tucker wears (sif u dont like wearing suits, if i got more chances to wear em i would)
 

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You look like Chris Tucker
 

DJVladdy

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haha sorry man! I swear that I did not read ANY of the responses, just wrote that as soon as i saw ur pic. No joke.
 

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Taken off a blog...Sites are legit and I am in no way associated with them. Great way to buy stylish stuff and save money in the process:)

http://www.Gilt.com is an ‘exclusive’ website where you can get discounts of up to 70% off of the retail price on clothes, shoes, and the occasional gadget. I put exclusive in quotes because you technically have to apply for membership, but I’m pretty sure they’re not turning people down. However, it should be noted that the items you get on the site are great, and generally the prices are better than what you’ll find at most other places.
The set up is simple: each day, a different brand or designer will be featured, or made available, with items from that brand on sale. You will then purchase them, wear them, and everyone will be like, “ooooh you’re so stylish and cool, I would like to have sex with you.” To date, I’ve ordered from Gilt about 5 or so times, and I’ll say that I’ve never been disappointed. The only bad thing is that things sell out pretty quickly, so if you see something you like, jump on it.


Of all the shopping websites, http://www.ShopItToMe.com is my favorite, I think. Not only do you wind up getting great deals, but it’s just so much more highly customizable than all the rest. Shop It To Me is a comprehensive sale aggregator that sends you a list each week with items you’re likely to be interested in.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rookie_son

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Just a Shot Away said:
I would just skip all of this looks/confidence crap and just tell chicks that I'm Chris Tucker's brother and that if they play their cards right I may be able to score them a role in Rush Hour 4.

But...that's just me.

bahahaha
 

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Special T said:
I took it all off before and people thought I was 18.
Well, either way the chin hair is definitely nerdy looking and not in a good way.
 

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Man all u gotta do is learn to dress fresh and the girls will come.

Remember to have the confident mentality and you are the prize. not the girl.

Make sure to dress fresh. Like all I wear is Hollister/Aeropostale (great cheap prices).... have sum non raggedy jeans. and for the shoes make sure you got sum sperries or polo shoes.

I also wear big stud earrings. Doing all this will attreact girls. Also make sure you got a fresh cut too. You must be presentable.
 

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you look like a pretty boy, i wouldn't have been surprised if u gave off the player vibe if i didn't know you.

I also look really young. people think im a highschool senior, i get carded for ciggarrettes and always when im out drinking. Some people say i have a baby face.

But the girls that know me or hang around me consider me a player, bad boy, etc. None of that matches what my looks relates to.

The way you make girls feel are way more important than what they initially see you as.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you do look like chris tucker. you should use Just a Shot Away's line. It's awesome! haha.
 
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Dude, Watch the Rush Hours, and see how Chris Tucker acts. Imitate that without the voice and immature comments. (So imitate confidence, whatever you say, make sure you mean it)
 

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In the past day, I've had two girls give me their numbers and suggesting we meet in person. I'm not on any dating websites. These websites are used to find out what's going on in your area. I guess that proves I am attractive to some girls.
 

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^^^You need to work on your self esteem from the looks of things in this thread. Everyone is attractive to some girls but you can easily be attractive to more girls than the average guy. As a black guy going for white girls however things might be a little different.

Read this thread enitrely. It is about black guys going after white girls and has some good insight in it from some black posters on the site.
 

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Opener to be used at the club/day game : DO YOU UNDERSTAND THE WORDS THAT ARE COMIN OUT OF MY MOUF!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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