Sometimes I do.King Turi said:I'd say it'd be more of a behaviour thing as has already been said, do you feel kinda awkward sometimes or something?
'Cuz people pick up on that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sometimes I do.King Turi said:I'd say it'd be more of a behaviour thing as has already been said, do you feel kinda awkward sometimes or something?
'Cuz people pick up on that.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hell yeah, work the chris tucker angleJust a Shot Away said:I would just skip all of this looks/confidence crap and just tell chicks that I'm Chris Tucker's brother and that if they play their cards right I may be able to score them a role in Rush Hour 4.
But...that's just me.
Yeah, well these are the times when you won't pick up any chicks or anything.Special T said:Sometimes I do.
Couldn't agree moreKing Turi said:It's so much harder to get chicks interested, and to talk to people and stuff when you're in your hometown, for me anyway, try hitting up some places out of town where nobody knows you, you kinda get to feel like you are being yourself.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just a Shot Away said:I would just skip all of this looks/confidence crap and just tell chicks that I'm Chris Tucker's brother and that if they play their cards right I may be able to score them a role in Rush Hour 4.
But...that's just me.
Well, either way the chin hair is definitely nerdy looking and not in a good way.Special T said:I took it all off before and people thought I was 18.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.