"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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I've been suspecting it for a while now, but in the last 3 weeks I have entered an entirely new phase of my game, I am like a ****ing God right now, it sounds ridiculous but... It has been ridiculous.

Before this point I had simply maintained routine, simple eating habits, exercise, intellectual study of all kinds, been really on the grind.

So I was putting in the work, seeing the gains faster than I thought I would of, anyways, 3 weeks ago, I decided to do something I have only done once ever, i went to the barber, had him slightly trim my beard but it's still quite long, but I also had him shave my head.

Whatever was facilitated when I shaved my head, I don't know, but I'm getting female attention on a level I never thought possible, every single woman I come across is checking me out without exception, even the 10s, and not like before where I get a bit of attention from them but eye fxcking.

2021 is the year of the bald dude, just shave your hair, keep the beard, let's go
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SirBigBell

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Let me let you in on an open secret.
Humans are hardwired to find contrast appealing. Think about how popular these examples of opposites are worldwide:
-sweet n sour flavour
-hot food and ice cold drinks
-interracial porno
-tuxedo (black suit and white shirt)
-American footballers (hard) and cheerleaders (soft)

The contrast between a bald smooth head and a beard teases and titillates women subconsciously the same way.
 

xplt

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I've been suspecting it for a while now, but in the last 3 weeks I have entered an entirely new phase of my game, I am like a ****ing God right now, it sounds ridiculous but... It has been ridiculous.

Before this point I had simply maintained routine, simple eating habits, exercise, intellectual study of all kinds, been really on the grind.

So I was putting in the work, seeing the gains faster than I thought I would of, anyways, 3 weeks ago, I decided to do something I have only done once ever, i went to the barber, had him slightly trim my beard but it's still quite long, but I also had him shave my head.

Whatever was facilitated when I shaved my head, I don't know, but I'm getting female attention on a level I never thought possible, every single woman I come across is checking me out without exception, even the 10s, and not like before where I get a bit of attention from them but eye fxcking.

2021 is the year of the bald dude, just shave your hair, keep the beard, let's go
Glad to hear you enjoy your silverdome. I also feel way more better since I‘m shaving my head. Combined with a nice beard you have some kind of ruthless look. Scalp hair is overrated.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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Let me let you in on an open secret.
Humans are hardwired to find contrast appealing. Think about how popular these examples of opposites are worldwide:
-sweet n sour flavour
-hot food and ice cold drinks
-interracial porno
-tuxedo (black suit and white shirt)
-American footballers (hard) and cheerleaders (soft)

The contrast between a bald smooth head and a beard teases and titillates women subconsciously the same way.
Hmmm... *thinking emoji*, good points
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Let me let you in on an open secret.
Humans are hardwired to find contrast appealing. Think about how popular these examples of opposites are worldwide:
-sweet n sour flavour
-hot food and ice cold drinks
-interracial porno
-tuxedo (black suit and white shirt)
-American footballers (hard) and cheerleaders (soft)

The contrast between a bald smooth head and a beard teases and titillates women subconsciously the same way.
I find this so interesting, expand if you can
 

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2021 is the year of the bald dude, just shave your hair, keep the beard, let's go
Not much of an option in my case, since the top of my head is already thinning. I like the looks tho, shaved feels way better. I just need a thick beard to escape the "egghead" looks.
 

MatureDJ

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I've been suspecting it for a while now, but in the last 3 weeks I have entered an entirely new phase of my game, I am like a ****ing God right now, it sounds ridiculous but... It has been ridiculous.

Before this point I had simply maintained routine, simple eating habits, exercise, intellectual study of all kinds, been really on the grind.

So I was putting in the work, seeing the gains faster than I thought I would of, anyways, 3 weeks ago, I decided to do something I have only done once ever, i went to the barber, had him slightly trim my beard but it's still quite long, but I also had him shave my head.

Whatever was facilitated when I shaved my head, I don't know, but I'm getting female attention on a level I never thought possible, every single woman I come across is checking me out without exception, even the 10s, and not like before where I get a bit of attention from them but eye fxcking.

2021 is the year of the bald dude, just shave your hair, keep the beard, let's go
Chicks like a nice thicket of hair in front. Being short & bald is a sperm death sentence, regardless of frame.

While I'm in the wasteland of the USA waiting for COVID to wither, I've let my beard grow out to Karl Marx level; the black gals at Popeye's still flirt with me. :eek:
 
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I think i'll keep my long hair and pony tail, i do pretty good with it. Bald can wait til it happens naturally, which im shocked hasnt happened by now since all the men in my family started losing their hair in their late 30s but i still have a thick head of hair for some reason.
 

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i've seen men with the short hair and beard get eye****s from women , the short haircut full thick beard works well
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ove peaked myself at 39.. Now being a year full of best moments pre covid of course.. Now its a death sentence.. Working from home.. Rarely go outside.. Covid case here has been all time high.. Whenever i go out its an overweight women all around sneaking behind me hoping for conversation.. Mostly ill run off lol.. Where are the hb?
 
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