"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have oneitis for a thick girl!

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Someone slap some sense into me!

I knew this girl years ago and she was skinny like a twig and very cute. Then I bumped into her 5 years later and she put on like 20-30 lbs. She still looked cute but her thighs look thick like tree trunks. And she now has a big bubble butt. It's weird because her stomach is still flat and her boobs look good. All the new weight went to her thighs and butt.

So I still asked her out and we hooked up but I got AFC on her and she dumped me. And now I think she has moved on and I keep thinking about her.

Why do I have oneitis for a thick girl?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2

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Because you want her tree trunk legs and jiggly ass. Thick girls with flat stomachs are the best.
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
Because you want her tree trunk legs and jiggly ass. Thick girls with flat stomachs are the best.
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Hell Yeah ! :D
 
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haha nice user name "Count Dracula".

Anyways, the way you described her doesnt make her sound bad at all. It sounds like the weight she gained went to ALL the right places haha.
 
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I like thick girls and I don't care. But, if their over 200 pounds I say no.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sounds like she got thick in all the right places. The only problem I see is that she became a oneitis.
 
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