"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have oneitis for a thick girl!

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Someone slap some sense into me!

I knew this girl years ago and she was skinny like a twig and very cute. Then I bumped into her 5 years later and she put on like 20-30 lbs. She still looked cute but her thighs look thick like tree trunks. And she now has a big bubble butt. It's weird because her stomach is still flat and her boobs look good. All the new weight went to her thighs and butt.

So I still asked her out and we hooked up but I got AFC on her and she dumped me. And now I think she has moved on and I keep thinking about her.

Why do I have oneitis for a thick girl?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Because you want her tree trunk legs and jiggly ass. Thick girls with flat stomachs are the best.
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
Because you want her tree trunk legs and jiggly ass. Thick girls with flat stomachs are the best.
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Hell Yeah ! :D
 
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Rebound Material

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haha nice user name "Count Dracula".

Anyways, the way you described her doesnt make her sound bad at all. It sounds like the weight she gained went to ALL the right places haha.
 
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I like thick girls and I don't care. But, if their over 200 pounds I say no.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds like she got thick in all the right places. The only problem I see is that she became a oneitis.
 
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