"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have no idea what to do in this situation.

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So, i'm in the Military and recently went back home for the Labor Day holiday. I reconnect with all my old bestfriends and everyone has a great, grand old drunken time. I discover my old best-friend has recently entered a relationship with his high school dream-girl, awesome for him. Well, the couple remarks how her friend would be a good match for me, and that I should meet her the next time I come down. I agree to this, mainly because she is hot based on the pictures they show me.

Now keep in mind, I am 24, and objectively horrible with women. I don't like socializing, so I suck at it. I get by based on being generally agreeable when it comes to physical appearance, and girls dig Marines. Now, for some reason I am actually a little excited about this prospect and don't want to **** things up. So, any tips from anyone out there? I hope I am not completely hopeless.

We both know virtually nothing about each other, we went to high school together, but we never in the same social sphere. I don't even know where to start.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So Terribly Clueless said:
So, i'm in the Military and recently went back home for the Labor Day holiday. I reconnect with all my old bestfriends and everyone has a great, grand old drunken time. I discover my old best-friend has recently entered a relationship with his high school dream-girl, awesome for him. Well, the couple remarks how her friend would be a good match for me, and that I should meet her the next time I come down. I agree to this, mainly because she is hot based on the pictures they show me.

Now keep in mind, I am 24, and objectively horrible with women. I don't like socializing, so I suck at it. I get by based on being generally agreeable when it comes to physical appearance, and girls dig Marines. Now, for some reason I am actually a little excited about this prospect and don't want to **** things up. So, any tips from anyone out there? I hope I am not completely hopeless.

We both know virtually nothing about each other, we went to high school together, but we never in the same social sphere. I don't even know where to start.

Thanks for reading

Welcome, bro!


Read the DJ Bible! That´s the best advice I can give you!


Keep us posted!
 

Radharc

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Why you´re sweating it so much over a girl you haven´t even met? Say you meet her and you hate her, as you get to see her character and personality?

You´re putting her in a pedestal even before you´ve met her, seems like you have a bit of a desperate mind frame regarding women. You need to adress that.

Now, what you need to do is to start some major work on your inner game, learn the basics, start by reading the DJ Bible, the Book of Pook as well, and I also recommend Weapons of Mass Seduction (all here in this site). Once you do that you´ll have much more solid foundations to work with, hell, you´ll probably figure the answer to your question just by doing that. :)

Still, good luck with that girl.
 
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