"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have no idea what to do in this situation.

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So, i'm in the Military and recently went back home for the Labor Day holiday. I reconnect with all my old bestfriends and everyone has a great, grand old drunken time. I discover my old best-friend has recently entered a relationship with his high school dream-girl, awesome for him. Well, the couple remarks how her friend would be a good match for me, and that I should meet her the next time I come down. I agree to this, mainly because she is hot based on the pictures they show me.

Now keep in mind, I am 24, and objectively horrible with women. I don't like socializing, so I suck at it. I get by based on being generally agreeable when it comes to physical appearance, and girls dig Marines. Now, for some reason I am actually a little excited about this prospect and don't want to **** things up. So, any tips from anyone out there? I hope I am not completely hopeless.

We both know virtually nothing about each other, we went to high school together, but we never in the same social sphere. I don't even know where to start.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lord Sidious

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So Terribly Clueless said:
So, i'm in the Military and recently went back home for the Labor Day holiday. I reconnect with all my old bestfriends and everyone has a great, grand old drunken time. I discover my old best-friend has recently entered a relationship with his high school dream-girl, awesome for him. Well, the couple remarks how her friend would be a good match for me, and that I should meet her the next time I come down. I agree to this, mainly because she is hot based on the pictures they show me.

Now keep in mind, I am 24, and objectively horrible with women. I don't like socializing, so I suck at it. I get by based on being generally agreeable when it comes to physical appearance, and girls dig Marines. Now, for some reason I am actually a little excited about this prospect and don't want to **** things up. So, any tips from anyone out there? I hope I am not completely hopeless.

We both know virtually nothing about each other, we went to high school together, but we never in the same social sphere. I don't even know where to start.

Thanks for reading

Welcome, bro!


Read the DJ Bible! That´s the best advice I can give you!


Keep us posted!
 

Radharc

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Why you´re sweating it so much over a girl you haven´t even met? Say you meet her and you hate her, as you get to see her character and personality?

You´re putting her in a pedestal even before you´ve met her, seems like you have a bit of a desperate mind frame regarding women. You need to adress that.

Now, what you need to do is to start some major work on your inner game, learn the basics, start by reading the DJ Bible, the Book of Pook as well, and I also recommend Weapons of Mass Seduction (all here in this site). Once you do that you´ll have much more solid foundations to work with, hell, you´ll probably figure the answer to your question just by doing that. :)

Still, good luck with that girl.
 
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