"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have no idea what to do in this situation.

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So, i'm in the Military and recently went back home for the Labor Day holiday. I reconnect with all my old bestfriends and everyone has a great, grand old drunken time. I discover my old best-friend has recently entered a relationship with his high school dream-girl, awesome for him. Well, the couple remarks how her friend would be a good match for me, and that I should meet her the next time I come down. I agree to this, mainly because she is hot based on the pictures they show me.

Now keep in mind, I am 24, and objectively horrible with women. I don't like socializing, so I suck at it. I get by based on being generally agreeable when it comes to physical appearance, and girls dig Marines. Now, for some reason I am actually a little excited about this prospect and don't want to **** things up. So, any tips from anyone out there? I hope I am not completely hopeless.

We both know virtually nothing about each other, we went to high school together, but we never in the same social sphere. I don't even know where to start.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lord Sidious

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So Terribly Clueless said:
So, i'm in the Military and recently went back home for the Labor Day holiday. I reconnect with all my old bestfriends and everyone has a great, grand old drunken time. I discover my old best-friend has recently entered a relationship with his high school dream-girl, awesome for him. Well, the couple remarks how her friend would be a good match for me, and that I should meet her the next time I come down. I agree to this, mainly because she is hot based on the pictures they show me.

Now keep in mind, I am 24, and objectively horrible with women. I don't like socializing, so I suck at it. I get by based on being generally agreeable when it comes to physical appearance, and girls dig Marines. Now, for some reason I am actually a little excited about this prospect and don't want to **** things up. So, any tips from anyone out there? I hope I am not completely hopeless.

We both know virtually nothing about each other, we went to high school together, but we never in the same social sphere. I don't even know where to start.

Thanks for reading

Welcome, bro!


Read the DJ Bible! That´s the best advice I can give you!


Keep us posted!
 

Radharc

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Why you´re sweating it so much over a girl you haven´t even met? Say you meet her and you hate her, as you get to see her character and personality?

You´re putting her in a pedestal even before you´ve met her, seems like you have a bit of a desperate mind frame regarding women. You need to adress that.

Now, what you need to do is to start some major work on your inner game, learn the basics, start by reading the DJ Bible, the Book of Pook as well, and I also recommend Weapons of Mass Seduction (all here in this site). Once you do that you´ll have much more solid foundations to work with, hell, you´ll probably figure the answer to your question just by doing that. :)

Still, good luck with that girl.
 
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