Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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i have no idea what this girl is thinking

ilovenikes

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***i have no idea what this girl is thinking***

this is my first post. well, just this year i really caught feelings for this one girl that goes to my school. i talk to her a bit during P.E. but not really. i always talk to her after school. i really cant tell what she is thinking or who she has feelings for. first off there is this popular bball player who she hangs out with at lunch with her close friends (the cool people or at least thats how i know them). i dont hang out in one place because i interact with everyone except most seniors. The theres one of my friends. He is the kinda of guy that likes one girl one week and the next week. he talks to her a lot on AIM, in class and after school. in my opinion, he acts sad around her so that she asks him whats wrong and he gets attention out of sympathy. Yes, he does make her laugh. Whenever i see them talking he is the one doing the "kino". Then theres this one guy in my same P.E. class and he really tries to spit game at her. He tried to ask her out to go somewhere but she always said that she was going out with her friends, or at least thats what i hear everytime i over hear them. When i start talking to her he tries to make me look bad by saying stuff like "oh he lives in the ghetto part of town"He always compliments her at like random times.

EX. -
him - omg those shoes are so ugly
her - your mom is ugly
him - youre pretty

it makes me laugh, then i give her the "wow he's spitting game at you what are you gonna do now" look. She liked him back in 7th or 8th grade or something. Another point is that every freaking guy seems to have feelings for her too. The ghetto people, the preppy people, the nerds etc.

before witer break i had one of her closest friends tell her that i liked her. i could not talk to her at all after that. i knew that if i talked to her at all she would think i was trying to get with her. just now at the end of january she began to talk to me again. she told me "wow i havent talked to you in a long time". now she does the thing that she did before she knew i liked her. she does things like wanting me to take the bus with her, watch a bball game with her and her friends, poking me and clinging on to my arm for like a minute. i like all of this and i try to act like im not interested in her. i dont know why i do that. I can make her laugh but its hard for me ta carry on a long long conversation.

i am really confused because i cannot tell if im in the friendzone or not. i cannot tell if she likes the bball player, the sad guy or the guy in P.E. class.

any advice on how to get her interested in me if shes not, any clue as to what her feeling may be or any advice anything that i should?

Oh and she is kinda rich, never had a boyfriend, dresses
urban-ish like 555SOUL or true religion jeans, smart and she is a good girl that hangs out with people that drink

and she loves nike shoes just like me
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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08aisaac

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You sound a bit young, and judging by your sound, you're a freshman, or something of the sort.

So maybe you should read more in the bible. And really get the material down pat. But you're doing fine for the most part.
Just hook up with her already.
 

ilovenikes

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nah im a sophomore. frshman year i was new to the school so my main goal was to make as many friends as i could at my school.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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