"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i have no idea what this girl is thinking

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***i have no idea what this girl is thinking***

this is my first post. well, just this year i really caught feelings for this one girl that goes to my school. i talk to her a bit during P.E. but not really. i always talk to her after school. i really cant tell what she is thinking or who she has feelings for. first off there is this popular bball player who she hangs out with at lunch with her close friends (the cool people or at least thats how i know them). i dont hang out in one place because i interact with everyone except most seniors. The theres one of my friends. He is the kinda of guy that likes one girl one week and the next week. he talks to her a lot on AIM, in class and after school. in my opinion, he acts sad around her so that she asks him whats wrong and he gets attention out of sympathy. Yes, he does make her laugh. Whenever i see them talking he is the one doing the "kino". Then theres this one guy in my same P.E. class and he really tries to spit game at her. He tried to ask her out to go somewhere but she always said that she was going out with her friends, or at least thats what i hear everytime i over hear them. When i start talking to her he tries to make me look bad by saying stuff like "oh he lives in the ghetto part of town"He always compliments her at like random times.

EX. -
him - omg those shoes are so ugly
her - your mom is ugly
him - youre pretty

it makes me laugh, then i give her the "wow he's spitting game at you what are you gonna do now" look. She liked him back in 7th or 8th grade or something. Another point is that every freaking guy seems to have feelings for her too. The ghetto people, the preppy people, the nerds etc.

before witer break i had one of her closest friends tell her that i liked her. i could not talk to her at all after that. i knew that if i talked to her at all she would think i was trying to get with her. just now at the end of january she began to talk to me again. she told me "wow i havent talked to you in a long time". now she does the thing that she did before she knew i liked her. she does things like wanting me to take the bus with her, watch a bball game with her and her friends, poking me and clinging on to my arm for like a minute. i like all of this and i try to act like im not interested in her. i dont know why i do that. I can make her laugh but its hard for me ta carry on a long long conversation.

i am really confused because i cannot tell if im in the friendzone or not. i cannot tell if she likes the bball player, the sad guy or the guy in P.E. class.

any advice on how to get her interested in me if shes not, any clue as to what her feeling may be or any advice anything that i should?

Oh and she is kinda rich, never had a boyfriend, dresses
urban-ish like 555SOUL or true religion jeans, smart and she is a good girl that hangs out with people that drink

and she loves nike shoes just like me
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You sound a bit young, and judging by your sound, you're a freshman, or something of the sort.

So maybe you should read more in the bible. And really get the material down pat. But you're doing fine for the most part.
Just hook up with her already.
 

ilovenikes

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nah im a sophomore. frshman year i was new to the school so my main goal was to make as many friends as i could at my school.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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