"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i have no game

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:( well, ive been reaidng this site for like 3 years and read the bible so many times and i just have no game with chicks!! whats the problem?!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Example - Saturday Night - Went out to a hookah bar with a group of people, a girl came with who I did not know, sat down, talked to her, introduced myself and we talked a while about random stuff, and then i mentioned I was going to a jerry springer show and she should come.. got her number, and when i left isaid i had to go but ill call you about the show.

I feel like I had no game whatsoever, what did I do wrong?

I even tried to do kino a little bit

Anything else I could of done?
 
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neonlimited said:
:( well, ive been reading this site for like 3 years and read the bible so many times and i just have no game with chicks!! whats the problem?!

u learn from many many many experiences, not from reading
 
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neonlimited said:
:( i have no game
Maybe you should resort to playing basketball instead! :D

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u learn from many many many experiences, not from reading
I agree, action is better than thought - otherwise how would you know if it applies to your style!
 

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Did you do anything sexual at all? Random conversation wont build attraction.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I know how you fee. I was going to say you should go out and apply these things to the real world but you have tried that.

I think that if you went out alone and just practiced on girls at a mall that you could realy improve that seems to give me the most confidence, only if I coudl go to mall when ever I wanted.
 

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yeah experience is better. i'd say im a looser and have terrible game.

from experience is what got me better. I'v hit on the hottest chicks and gotten blown a lot so i really dont give a **** anymore. sadly i dont much about anythign these days. But i'll at least voice my opinion and im not afriad to be an ******* anymore which is good cause at least i get more things my way.
 

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Dont have a negative attitude about yourself. This is exactly why you aren't successful. Do whatever it takes to get your mind in a positive attitude, and you will find that you really do have game.
 

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woods said:
Did you do anything sexual at all? Random conversation wont build attraction.
What builds attraction is charisma, without that all game is fvcked, no tactics or strategies will make a hot babes puzzy wet, it is the X-Factor that a PUA needs. :yes:
 

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Not that charisma is not important,but for the task at hand..getting laid,balls are prerequisite #1.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Leaving the site will massively boost anyones game. You just don't need all this to get chicks.

Anytime you interact with a girl, it should be relaxed, it should be effortless.

-You shouldn't be straining yourself (like bench pressing 800 lbs)

-You shouldn't feel like you're approaching a job interview

Nervousness cuts off your flow, your creativity, fun, spontaneity.

Common sense and embracing what you should do as a man talking to girls is going to get you alot farther than some abstract theory.
 
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