neonlimited
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well, ive been reaidng this site for like 3 years and read the bible so many times and i just have no game with chicks!! whats the problem?!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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well, ive been reaidng this site for like 3 years and read the bible so many times and i just have no game with chicks!! whats the problem?!"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
neonlimited
Don Juan
Example - Saturday Night - Went out to a hookah bar with a group of people, a girl came with who I did not know, sat down, talked to her, introduced myself and we talked a while about random stuff, and then i mentioned I was going to a jerry springer show and she should come.. got her number, and when i left isaid i had to go but ill call you about the show.
I feel like I had no game whatsoever, what did I do wrong?
I even tried to do kino a little bit
Anything else I could of done?
I feel like I had no game whatsoever, what did I do wrong?
I even tried to do kino a little bit
Anything else I could of done?
All The Answers
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neonlimited said:
u learn from many many many experiences, not from reading
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Maybe you should resort to playing basketball instead!neonlimited said:
I agree, action is better than thought - otherwise how would you know if it applies to your style!All The Answers said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know how you fee. I was going to say you should go out and apply these things to the real world but you have tried that.
I think that if you went out alone and just practiced on girls at a mall that you could realy improve that seems to give me the most confidence, only if I coudl go to mall when ever I wanted.
I think that if you went out alone and just practiced on girls at a mall that you could realy improve that seems to give me the most confidence, only if I coudl go to mall when ever I wanted.
Fenderules
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yeah experience is better. i'd say im a looser and have terrible game.
from experience is what got me better. I'v hit on the hottest chicks and gotten blown a lot so i really dont give a **** anymore. sadly i dont much about anythign these days. But i'll at least voice my opinion and im not afriad to be an ******* anymore which is good cause at least i get more things my way.
from experience is what got me better. I'v hit on the hottest chicks and gotten blown a lot so i really dont give a **** anymore. sadly i dont much about anythign these days. But i'll at least voice my opinion and im not afriad to be an ******* anymore which is good cause at least i get more things my way.
PigAdlemPimp
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What builds attraction is charisma, without that all game is fvcked, no tactics or strategies will make a hot babes puzzy wet, it is the X-Factor that a PUA needs. :yes:woods said:
GloriouslyInsane
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Not that charisma is not important,but for the task at hand..getting laid,balls are prerequisite #1.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GQ_Confidence_1
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Leaving the site will massively boost anyones game. You just don't need all this to get chicks.
Anytime you interact with a girl, it should be relaxed, it should be effortless.
-You shouldn't be straining yourself (like bench pressing 800 lbs)
-You shouldn't feel like you're approaching a job interview
Nervousness cuts off your flow, your creativity, fun, spontaneity.
Common sense and embracing what you should do as a man talking to girls is going to get you alot farther than some abstract theory.
Anytime you interact with a girl, it should be relaxed, it should be effortless.
-You shouldn't be straining yourself (like bench pressing 800 lbs)
-You shouldn't feel like you're approaching a job interview
Nervousness cuts off your flow, your creativity, fun, spontaneity.
Common sense and embracing what you should do as a man talking to girls is going to get you alot farther than some abstract theory.