"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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:( well, ive been reaidng this site for like 3 years and read the bible so many times and i just have no game with chicks!! whats the problem?!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Example - Saturday Night - Went out to a hookah bar with a group of people, a girl came with who I did not know, sat down, talked to her, introduced myself and we talked a while about random stuff, and then i mentioned I was going to a jerry springer show and she should come.. got her number, and when i left isaid i had to go but ill call you about the show.

I feel like I had no game whatsoever, what did I do wrong?

I even tried to do kino a little bit

Anything else I could of done?
 
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neonlimited said:
:( well, ive been reading this site for like 3 years and read the bible so many times and i just have no game with chicks!! whats the problem?!

u learn from many many many experiences, not from reading
 
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neonlimited said:
:( i have no game
Maybe you should resort to playing basketball instead! :D

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u learn from many many many experiences, not from reading
I agree, action is better than thought - otherwise how would you know if it applies to your style!
 

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Did you do anything sexual at all? Random conversation wont build attraction.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know how you fee. I was going to say you should go out and apply these things to the real world but you have tried that.

I think that if you went out alone and just practiced on girls at a mall that you could realy improve that seems to give me the most confidence, only if I coudl go to mall when ever I wanted.
 

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yeah experience is better. i'd say im a looser and have terrible game.

from experience is what got me better. I'v hit on the hottest chicks and gotten blown a lot so i really dont give a **** anymore. sadly i dont much about anythign these days. But i'll at least voice my opinion and im not afriad to be an ******* anymore which is good cause at least i get more things my way.
 

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Dont have a negative attitude about yourself. This is exactly why you aren't successful. Do whatever it takes to get your mind in a positive attitude, and you will find that you really do have game.
 

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woods said:
Did you do anything sexual at all? Random conversation wont build attraction.
What builds attraction is charisma, without that all game is fvcked, no tactics or strategies will make a hot babes puzzy wet, it is the X-Factor that a PUA needs. :yes:
 

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Not that charisma is not important,but for the task at hand..getting laid,balls are prerequisite #1.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Leaving the site will massively boost anyones game. You just don't need all this to get chicks.

Anytime you interact with a girl, it should be relaxed, it should be effortless.

-You shouldn't be straining yourself (like bench pressing 800 lbs)

-You shouldn't feel like you're approaching a job interview

Nervousness cuts off your flow, your creativity, fun, spontaneity.

Common sense and embracing what you should do as a man talking to girls is going to get you alot farther than some abstract theory.
 
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