Well, let's slap the truth in your face once again. You will not get laid if you continue like you have done to now. You will never ever get it. This forum doesn't helped you, never has and never will. We're trying, but you're blind to what we tell you because we're not telling you what you WANT to hear. We are however telling you what you NEED to hear.
Now let's get to the subject. Look up "play" on wikipedia, what does it tell you? Roughly it's along the lines of very complex and not even science is sure how it works. Why? Because defining play and playfulness isn't playful, it's not a system or any specific repeating thing. There's no procedure that can be learned, no routine. You get the point I hope? It's often even against what makes sense and what's expected. You can't learn it like you learn how to perform a specific dance, it's more like improvising. Now how the fvck are anyone supposed to teach you creativity and imagination? That's like trying to teach someone how to learn, if you think carefully about that you'll see how impossible that actually is.
You're not learning, you're not even trying to learn. What you're after is for us to give you the answers, but we all know that giving up all these specific things only takes you so far. So the best help we can provide to you is to not help you, because that's the only thing that may potentially help you. How? You'll eventually be forced into that uncomfortable corner you're trying to avoid, which is either you learn or you stagnate through your entire life exactly in the spot you are today.
So I will tell you once again to get off the forum, go out to try things out, if you fail you try something else. That's how you learn, by failing and trying something else until you get what you want. I use this way of thinking to fix my computer problems, car problems, women problems and any kind of problem really. It's simple science, have a theoretical idea, try it out in reality, evaluate the results, figure out what went wrong, try to correct the mistake in your new theory and test again.
Hell, I have made every chump move in the book and the one's not in the book. But in all that testing and hard work I figured out what did work, and what you're doing now is one of the things that didn't work. So you have to change.
I've decided that I'll make you my project, respond to your threads which in themselves is an example of how you do the same thing over and over without progress and I'll give you the same advice for as long as you don't change. Same type of thread = same type of response. You are creative on one point, you're capable of conjuring up dead end questions.
Now for the third time (I think), get the fvck away from here and don't return without having tried something new and seeking genuine answers related to it.
