"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something I've noticed. I don't have approach anxiety. If a girl flakes on me, I just delete the number instantaneously. It's not even a second thought. I go from one girl to the next and just try to sleep with them as soon as possible, but I have absolutely no interest in a connection or a relationship with them. I don't get jealous, don't care if I get resistance, rejected, etc. I just plow through the field with an iron fist.

I think what bothers me is the boredom, and the only thing that soothes that is approaching girls all the time. I enjoy the texting process and trying to get the girl to meet up with me. However, once I sleep with the girl I'm done with her and start all over again with a new girl. I don't know, it just feels... empty.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GreatHornedOwl said:
Something I've noticed. I don't have approach anxiety. If a girl flakes on me, I just delete the number instantaneously. It's not even a second thought. I go from one girl to the next and just try to sleep with them as soon as possible, but I have absolutely no interest in a connection or a relationship with them. I don't get jealous, don't care if I get resistance, rejected, etc. I just plow through the field with an iron fist.

I think what bothers me is the boredom, and the only thing that soothes that is approaching girls all the time. I enjoy the texting process and trying to get the girl to meet up with me. However, once I sleep with the girl I'm done with her and start all over again with a new girl. I don't know, it just feels... empty.
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It feels empty because our society promotes all this one night stand, try and fvck a new person everday horsesh! t mindset. Something is wrong, very wrong with all of this.......After a while it gets depressing because you're losing your ability to create and experience intimacy with another person. Call me and "AFC" if you want, i don't give a fvck.
 
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well most girls are *****es anyway. You just gotta find one who turns you on mentally or something. That is if they already turn you on physically.

Find a good girl.
 
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btownbuck2012 said:
It feels empty because our society promotes all this one night stand, try and fvck a new person everday horsesh! t mindset. Something is wrong, very wrong with all of this.......After a while it gets depressing because you're losing your ability to create and experience intimacy with another person. Call me and "AFC" if you want, i don't give a fvck.
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I couldn't agree more and some people will tell Mr Owl that what he is feeling is the starting point of him becoming a Don Juan, but I think it's quite sad when a person becomes emotionaless, because they aren't really human anymore. Emotions are great, providing they are controlled and aren't allowed to rule your head in matters. A healthy balance is needed in regard to emotions, neither extreme is helpful or healthy for the individual involved.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tell you something. I had chronic runny nose, and I couldn't breath if I didn't use spray. I got girlfriend, and I'm cured. No more runny nose.
 
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I agree with the others. While I'm all for a "non-reactive frame," the goal isn't to become emotionless.

You might consider taking a break from the game and find some other (more constructive) hobbies that you can enjoy. Once you re-connect with something fun in life, you might learn to enjoy the company of women again.
 
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