"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everytime I try to ask this damn girl out she is talking to her friends. What am I supposed to say? She is in my math class and I do not know if I should just ask her at the end of class or something like that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJ_SUPREME

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have you talked to her before?? dont just ask her out if you havent had talked to... just go up to her whenever she looks bored or at least say hi and start a conversation... get some balls!
 

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What's the worst that could happen? The girl saying no? Nope.

The worst thing that could happen is by doing NOTHING at all. You are creating a breeding ground for regret. **** your instinct of curling into a ball in the corner of the room. Just go! Talk to her.
 

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listen to their convo, and if they talk about anything u can relate to or know about, butt in. like if they ask a question about someone u know, walk over and be like, "hey, are u talking about so and so? i know him. blah blah blah...". as long as u dont totally blow it, u should now have established yourself. next time u're in the class, just talk to her like u've always known her, no big.
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
listen to their convo, and if they talk about anything u can relate to or know about, butt in. like if they ask a question about someone u know, walk over and be like, "hey, are u talking about so and so? i know him. blah blah blah...". as long as u dont totally blow it, u should now have established yourself. next time u're in the class, just talk to her like u've always known her, no big.
Why?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WesCottII

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If you're going to ask her out say

"excuse me, can I borrow !name! for a second"
 

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I've been in this situation before too, I'm afraid to butt in because I'm afraid she'll think I'm noisy and give me a bunch of crap, hard as it is to believe, there are girls that will do that.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
I've been in this situation before too, I'm afraid to butt in because I'm afraid she'll think I'm noisy and give me a bunch of crap, hard as it is to believe, there are girls that will do that.
When girls act disturbed about you making your way into their convo, it's usually a test.
 

Ace of Flames

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Why?
why what? i dont get your question.

maybe im wrong, whatever. i dont have a problem getting into convo's with girls, so i guess i might not be able to help. i dont personally use what i suggested much at all. :p
 

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Just catch her after class.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by biketrials
Everytime I try to ask this damn girl out she is talking to her friends. What am I supposed to say? She is in my math class and I do not know if I should just ask her at the end of class or something like that.
If i were you I WOULD GRAB HER ARM and pull her somewhere secluded where i won't get intrupted and ask her, JUST DO IT u'll regret it later if you dont. It'll show that your confident and that your alpha.
 

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I thought you seriously had no balls, like had them removed as a child.
That would be a problem.
You need some confidence, bacause asking her out is the easy part, keeping her is the part that takes skill. Girls like going out with guys, unless the guy is too nervous to ask her out in the first place.

And yeah, I barge into girls conversations all the time. I don't usually get rejected. One time this hot chick and her ug friend were saying "My bf get so jealous when I talk to other guys." And I was like, "Mine does too."
Holy ****, she got pissed.
She was like shut up, no one asked you, and proceeded to be pissed.
It was bad, but these chicks weren't really hot.

No point to that story.
 
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