"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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biketrials

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Everytime I try to ask this damn girl out she is talking to her friends. What am I supposed to say? She is in my math class and I do not know if I should just ask her at the end of class or something like that.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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have you talked to her before?? dont just ask her out if you havent had talked to... just go up to her whenever she looks bored or at least say hi and start a conversation... get some balls!
 

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What's the worst that could happen? The girl saying no? Nope.

The worst thing that could happen is by doing NOTHING at all. You are creating a breeding ground for regret. **** your instinct of curling into a ball in the corner of the room. Just go! Talk to her.
 

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listen to their convo, and if they talk about anything u can relate to or know about, butt in. like if they ask a question about someone u know, walk over and be like, "hey, are u talking about so and so? i know him. blah blah blah...". as long as u dont totally blow it, u should now have established yourself. next time u're in the class, just talk to her like u've always known her, no big.
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
listen to their convo, and if they talk about anything u can relate to or know about, butt in. like if they ask a question about someone u know, walk over and be like, "hey, are u talking about so and so? i know him. blah blah blah...". as long as u dont totally blow it, u should now have established yourself. next time u're in the class, just talk to her like u've always known her, no big.
Why?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you're going to ask her out say

"excuse me, can I borrow !name! for a second"
 

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I've been in this situation before too, I'm afraid to butt in because I'm afraid she'll think I'm noisy and give me a bunch of crap, hard as it is to believe, there are girls that will do that.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
I've been in this situation before too, I'm afraid to butt in because I'm afraid she'll think I'm noisy and give me a bunch of crap, hard as it is to believe, there are girls that will do that.
When girls act disturbed about you making your way into their convo, it's usually a test.
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Why?
why what? i dont get your question.

maybe im wrong, whatever. i dont have a problem getting into convo's with girls, so i guess i might not be able to help. i dont personally use what i suggested much at all. :p
 

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Just catch her after class.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by biketrials
Everytime I try to ask this damn girl out she is talking to her friends. What am I supposed to say? She is in my math class and I do not know if I should just ask her at the end of class or something like that.
If i were you I WOULD GRAB HER ARM and pull her somewhere secluded where i won't get intrupted and ask her, JUST DO IT u'll regret it later if you dont. It'll show that your confident and that your alpha.
 

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I thought you seriously had no balls, like had them removed as a child.
That would be a problem.
You need some confidence, bacause asking her out is the easy part, keeping her is the part that takes skill. Girls like going out with guys, unless the guy is too nervous to ask her out in the first place.

And yeah, I barge into girls conversations all the time. I don't usually get rejected. One time this hot chick and her ug friend were saying "My bf get so jealous when I talk to other guys." And I was like, "Mine does too."
Holy ****, she got pissed.
She was like shut up, no one asked you, and proceeded to be pissed.
It was bad, but these chicks weren't really hot.

No point to that story.
 
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