"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

I have never seen so many threads on looks

SrDedosRapidos

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2008
Messages
96
Reaction score
1
The **** happened?

Is this normal? I remember there barely being any when I used to come here 8-9 months ago.

Im not going to argue as to whether or not looks matter; it is apparently about the same as talking religion and politics.

Why does everyone seem to be focusing on such a static aspect of the game all of a sudden?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

ChalengeGuyFan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2008
Messages
521
Reaction score
19
It's easier to b-tch and analyze stuff until your brain implodes rather than to take the steps which would make you a happier person.

In the latter situation you're less likely to think about these things.
 

Kal0051

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 24, 2009
Messages
964
Reaction score
7
They obsess over it because then they don't have to admit that it's their personality that turns women off. So they say they don't get girls because other guys are better looking when in reality it's because other guys have better personality and are more fun.
 

SrDedosRapidos

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 29, 2008
Messages
96
Reaction score
1
ChalengeGuyFan said:
It's easier to b-tch and analyze stuff until your brain implodes rather than to take the steps which would make you a happier person.

In the latter situation you're less likely to think about these things.
I mean... outside a haircut, a shave and a nice outfit there is nothing you can do. I just don't get the point in complaining.
 

Ice882

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 23, 2009
Messages
451
Reaction score
19
So You Start Another One. I Might Kill Myself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top