"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have never seen so many threads on looks

SrDedosRapidos

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The **** happened?

Is this normal? I remember there barely being any when I used to come here 8-9 months ago.

Im not going to argue as to whether or not looks matter; it is apparently about the same as talking religion and politics.

Why does everyone seem to be focusing on such a static aspect of the game all of a sudden?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's easier to b-tch and analyze stuff until your brain implodes rather than to take the steps which would make you a happier person.

In the latter situation you're less likely to think about these things.
 

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They obsess over it because then they don't have to admit that it's their personality that turns women off. So they say they don't get girls because other guys are better looking when in reality it's because other guys have better personality and are more fun.
 

SrDedosRapidos

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
It's easier to b-tch and analyze stuff until your brain implodes rather than to take the steps which would make you a happier person.

In the latter situation you're less likely to think about these things.
I mean... outside a haircut, a shave and a nice outfit there is nothing you can do. I just don't get the point in complaining.
 

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So You Start Another One. I Might Kill Myself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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