I'm realizing, I'm a freshman in highschool and I've never had a girlfriend. I've had plenty of Girl__Friends...just friends but, ive never really asked a girl out before....its a little embarrassing....Kind of pathetic too. Idk what the problem is....I'm sometimes scared to approach girls. I've never approached one in the hallways. I usually end up being friends with girls only in my classes, and the girls in my classes arent my type of GIRLFRIENDs.....Idk what to do...i cant seem to get over my fear
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lol. Dude, any girlfriends before 9th grade really don't count as a real relationship. Well it seems that way too me. Nobody cares if you never had a gf. Your only a freshman. You still have 3 years left in highschool. There's seniors that have never had a gf and they don't care a least bit about it. Don't go looking for a relationship.
Real men are the ones that can be happy without a girl. Read the DJ Bible and express your TRUE personality. Don't go looking for relationships because that will make you desperate. I'm a senior and just got my 1st gf in november. Some people might think it's lame but I really don't give a flip about what they think. The second you start worry about small things like this and what others think your already screwing your self. I mess up so many times throughout HS and I realized that everytime I did so was because I was either trying to please others or worrying about what they might approve of whats 'cool' and whats 'lame'. Don't worry about that. Seriously man. It will just hurt you in the end. And if you really want something it's your job to go get it!!!!! "Life is like a trumpit. If you don't put anything into it, you wont get anything out of it." Just live life, don't live to please others, Embrace God, and have fun and watch what happens. Trust me. Good luck and BE YOU!
God Bless!
Real men are the ones that can be happy without a girl. Read the DJ Bible and express your TRUE personality. Don't go looking for relationships because that will make you desperate. I'm a senior and just got my 1st gf in november. Some people might think it's lame but I really don't give a flip about what they think. The second you start worry about small things like this and what others think your already screwing your self. I mess up so many times throughout HS and I realized that everytime I did so was because I was either trying to please others or worrying about what they might approve of whats 'cool' and whats 'lame'. Don't worry about that. Seriously man. It will just hurt you in the end. And if you really want something it's your job to go get it!!!!! "Life is like a trumpit. If you don't put anything into it, you wont get anything out of it." Just live life, don't live to please others, Embrace God, and have fun and watch what happens. Trust me. Good luck and BE YOU!
God Bless!
WOAH.....i have never ever thought of it like that........That is.....Wow..I never looked at it like that. Thank you, you've opened my eyes a little bitrkc09 said:lol. Dude, any girlfriends before 9th grade really don't count as a real relationship. Well it seems that way too me. Nobody cares if you never had a gf. Your only a freshman. You still have 3 years left in highschool. There's seniors that have never had a gf and they don't care a least bit about it. Don't go looking for a relationship.
Real men are the ones that can be happy without a girl. Read the DJ Bible and express your TRUE personality. Don't go looking for relationships because that will make you desperate. I'm a senior and just got my 1st gf in november. Some people might think it's lame but I really don't give a flip about what they think. The second you start worry about small things like this and what others think your already screwing your self. I mess up so many times throughout HS and I realized that everytime I did so was because I was either trying to please others or worrying about what they might approve of whats 'cool' and whats 'lame'. Don't worry about that. Seriously man. It will just hurt you in the end. And if you really want something it's your job to go get it!!!!! "Life is like a trumpit. If you don't put anything into it, you wont get anything out of it." Just live life, don't live to please others, Embrace God, and have fun and watch what happens. Trust me. Good luck and BE YOU!
God Bless!
These are the most common threads, and we've all been through it. All you can do is grow some balls and approach. The more you do it, the more comfortable and better you'll be at it.Alive said:
As your approaching and talking to her, try not to think of what you'll say next and don't be stuck in your head. You have to talk naturally, and when you go in your head and start thinking, that's when the conversation goes bad.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Dude ur only a freshman why are you freaking out lol? 80% of the guys in your grade have never had a gf before either so i dont see what the problem is. Not to mention that relationships in middle school dont even count as a relationship its all a joke lol
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Congratulations! ur not missing anything good.
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Yeah dont go out looking for a girlfriend, I had one girlfriend in my four years of high school and it sucked.
In high school you only want to casually "date" girls. The more girls the better. It takes practice though, iv been at this for almost 2 years and im just now getting the hang of spinning multiple plates.
Read the information and practice this sh1t and you will be able to land a girl like a pro with time
In high school you only want to casually "date" girls. The more girls the better. It takes practice though, iv been at this for almost 2 years and im just now getting the hang of spinning multiple plates.
Read the information and practice this sh1t and you will be able to land a girl like a pro with time
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Relax dude, you're only a freshman. You're not missing out on much yet.
Just approach more girls and have fun for now. Most of this material applies best to outside school, learn it, but don't dwell on it. High school is a much easier game. You basically just play your circle of friends, add more girls, and make a move on the ones you are interested in. How do you make a move? That's where this site can come in handy.
Look up everything on confidence and anything you can find about making the move. Then PRACTICE.
Just approach more girls and have fun for now. Most of this material applies best to outside school, learn it, but don't dwell on it. High school is a much easier game. You basically just play your circle of friends, add more girls, and make a move on the ones you are interested in. How do you make a move? That's where this site can come in handy.
Look up everything on confidence and anything you can find about making the move. Then PRACTICE.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You're a freshman so you have plenty of time, believe me I'm a senior so I'll give you some advice that I learned the hard way without the help of something like these boards. It's all about confidence. I'm an okay looking guy but nothing special, however I have the ego of a rockstar. that is what draws women. If you are rejected, don't get down about it.there's no such thing as mistakes, just lessons. You'll get there, you'll learn. Its only high school, so don't go out looking for a future wife, just look to have some fun. If things don't work out this year, believe me it will get better. I didn't have a girlfriend until my sophomore year, but now all I do is hang out with girls. Hope this is of some help for you.