"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have never felt as bad as i do now

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That was very uplifting to me. Thank you. You are right about me thinking about her in the morning and at night. I'm going to cut all contact and just let things be. Me and her will never be good for each other.

Im going to try not to think about it and move on with my own life. She lost a great guy in me, i would have given my all to her.

Its going to take a long time to get over this i know, but the sooner i stop feeling bad for myself the sooner ill feel normal again.

Now im just going to start saving up cash, keep on studying and focus on ways to better myself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's exactly what you need to do. In my experience, the two best cures for heartbreak are 1) self-improvement and 2) other women!!!
 
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always protect your heart and be a man
 
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Im having a really hard time still. It comes in waves. I cant stop thinking about everything. Its driving me insane. She hasnt contacted me or made any attempts. She basically doesnt give a sh*t about me. Im having a hard time dealing with that. I think this is beyond oneitis.....i opened up to her really bad, im having a hard time moving forward and forgetting about everything.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ah...I feell ya man. I'm going through some of the same s*it. Followed a girl around for a year, I got to be a "mate" while she slept with other guys. I was in love with her. I kidded myself that something might happen for ages, she recently "ended it" coz I was looking out for her, and she had a go at me. She was the one being a cow, but I was the one reaching for the phone, trying to apologise and make things better. Only today have I thought, "you know what, that cow has controlled me long enough. She's stupid (can't pass her exams) drinks too much, is a wh*re, and I'm obsessed with her? Nah.....I'm outta here"

Hope it works out for ya man.
 
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Originally posted by Legend
Well this girl i have liked for the past five years is letting her ex bf move in with her. When she told me this i freaked out and thought i was going to have a stroke. My blood pressure is so high right now, im completely red. I think i may have a heart attack.

She told me she still has feelings for this guy. He broke up with her.

how do i play this situation? Do refuse to talk to her ever again? She has hurt me so bad. I have never felt this bad before. I feel like i could cry for hours.

She has no desire to be with me...i have looked like a fool trying to let her see that im the one for her. the situation is lost, i can not win. Shes the apple of my eye.....and shes destroying me by being the way she is.

Shes probably scared of me the way i acted. I acted like a fool, but i dont even care. I cant be a big tough guy all the time.

I need anyones help, i feel so alone and hollow.
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THIS is one-itis, when you " " " LOVE " " " someone and they dont even think of you sexually....
 
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